The big ballin beads and barbell was exactly what I wanted. I might have bitten off a little more than I can chew, though. I got the half inch stainless steel beads. Its pretty heavy for a frenulem piercing. I may have to purchase titanium beads. I'm also looking at a curved barbell maybe.
Regardless, the chaingang has the most easily navigational website and the best selection that I have found.