Many people who are interested in prostate stimulation are also intrigued by prostate milking. If you wish to know more about prostate milking and its unique aspects you need to understand this practice in its unique context. Keep in mind that prostate milking includes prostate massage, but not all prostate stimulation is prostate milking in the strict sense of the word.
Prostate milking is a specific sexual activity, mainly done in fetish and BDSM communities to exercise power and control. It is also used by people who engage in male chastity. While you may not wish to use prostate milking in this sense, it is still important to understand what this practice is about.
Differences Between Milking and Massage
For some people, prostate milking is the same thing as prostate massage or prostate stimulation in general. Sometimes, these terms are understood as synonyms: prostate stimulation and prostate massage are often called “prostate milking”. In a way, this is understandable: prostate stimulation is not a common practice for everyone and some people might think that there is not much difference between different activities. Also, prostate orgasm can sure make the man ejaculate so it can be understood as “milking”. If you wish to understand prostate milking in this sense you may treat it as just a regular form of prostate stimulation.
However, it is important to know that prostate milking is a special practice often associated with various fetish and kink communities. In this sense, prostate milking is not simply any prostate massage, but the one done with a specific purpose of “draining” the prostate slowly and consistently and not as part of regular ejaculation.
In other words, prostate milking is used to “milk” the gland out of the precum and seminal fluid without bringing a man to orgasm or traditional ejaculation. The fluid milked goes slowly and in small amounts. This is very different than regular ejaculation and it brings very different physical and mental effects.
Physically, prostate milking does not produce traditional orgasms and therefore there is no usual sort of arousal and pleasure that can be experienced. The feeling itself is more of a teasing without actual satisfaction. This is why the main effect of prostate milking are psychological and used in fetish communities to achieve different goals. Brining your slave to the edge but never satisfying him. Milking a caged man so prostate is drained and thus kept healthy without allowing the man to achieve erection, orgasm and pleasure. Teasing your partner while he’s begging for release. Prostate milking can be used for many different things and it is a very powerful game between couples. It produced both practical results (the fluid being released) and powerful psychological effects.
In essence, milking is a targeted prostate stimulation done with the purpose of draining the prostate. The massage is done until cum is released, but without orgasm. If done correctly, the fluid can flow slowly and in small amounts.
Why Perform Prostate Milking?
Prostate milking can be done for various reasons, the main one being drainage. The man’s cum is simply drained instead of being ejaculated during orgasm. So, why do this?
Here are some common reasons:
- A forced experience. Prostate milking drains the seminal fluid out of the body without orgasm. As such, it is a forced experience that does not bring pleasure to the man. In fact, it can often leave him frustrated and vulnerable. As such, this is a desirable scenario for specific BDSM activities and a good way to control the submissive partner.
- Teasing and punishment. Prostate milking can be used for specific teasing and punishment purposes. While it is not particularly painful or uncomfortable it can be used to cause frustration for the submissive partner.
- Prostate health. A man’s prostate has to be drained every ten days or so. If the man is not allowed to ejaculate, the accumulation of seminal fluid in the prostate is damaging. To prevent health problems and illnesses it is important to empty the prostate from time to time. Since men in some situations are not allowed to achieve arousal and orgasm (such as men practicing male chastity) prostate milking is necessary to allow the prostate to drain and to prevent health problems. If you engage in male chastity make sure to also perform milking at least once per week or ten days at most.
How to Perform Prostate Milking
Prostate milking requires some practice to get right. As with other forms of sexual stimulation, you need patience and enthusiasm. Since this is an activity for couples, both people need to be relaxed and ready to engage in this practice.
Prostate milking is best done by applying targeted yet subtle pressure onto prostate. Those who know prostate massage should not have a problem finding the sweet spot. However, it is important not to bring a man to full arousal and orgasm when doing the milking. Sometimes, this is the hardest part, especially for those who enjoy prostate stimulation on a regular basis.
For prostate milking to work in practice, it is important for massage to be subtle. Quick yet subtle movements seems to work the best. It is also important for massage to be targeted to a specific spot. This is why it’s often done with special toys: milking sticks.
A milking stick is a toy specially designed for prostate milking. It has a long, thin base and a head with a slight tip. The tip can be used for targeted prostate stimulation. It can be used for teasing and massage.
When using a milking toy, however, make sure to proceed carefully. The massage should be done without force and roughness. The toys make the process quicker but you need to be careful in order not to hurt the man in the process.
If you notice any blood in semen it is a sign that you’re too rough. If this happens, stop immediately. If bleeding continues, make sure to seek medical attention because it is a serious warning sign.
Also, keep in mind that prostate milking comes with the same health and safety warnings as regular prostate stimulation. Both include prostate massage, and it should not be done on men who have certain conditions, such as acute prostatitis and some other conditions. If in doubt, make sure to consult your doctor. It is important to stay safe during your sexual activities!
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