Urethral (Penis) Sounding: For Beginners & Advanced Users

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Many people wonder about the urethral sound benefits.

What can urethral sounding bring to your sex life?

How can urethral sounds pleasure you and why do people choose to perform this activity?

Here we’ll be discussing all the major things on Urethral Sounding – the benefits of male sounding, how to get stared & the common concerns people may have:

  1. Urethral Sound benefits
  2. Urethral Sounding for Beginners
  3. Common Fears about Urethral Sounding
  4. How to Train for Deep Urethral Stimulation

What are Urethral Sounding benefits?

There are numerous benefits that urethral sounding can bring to your sex life if you are into this sort of sexual activity. Some of the most important benefits include:

  • Great Feeling: Urethral sounding produces many pleasurable sensations.
  • Something New: Urethral sounding allows you to try something new.
  • Unique Sensations: It feels like nothing else.
  • Stronger Orgasms
  • Direct Prostate Stimulation: Urethral sounding allows you to stimulate your prostate.
  • Penis Gets Bigger and Stronger: Urethral sounding can make your penis bigger and your erections stronger.
  • Building Intimacy for Couples.

Below are the benefits of Urethral Sounding explained in more detail:

Urethral Sounding Produces Great Feelings

Urethral sounding can produce many great feelings and sensations. This is probably the main benefit of using urethral sounds – they feel amazing. There are many men who claim that this is their favorite form of stimulation. Being stimulated from the inside of the penis feels great, especially when coupled with masturbation. This is a perfect way to massage your penis both on the inside and outside. It produces great and new sensations.

It is therefore not surprising that there are so many men who engage in steamy urethral stimulation. This is a perfect way to enhance your arousal and bring pleasure to a completely new level. 

Keep in mind that urethral stimulation requires a bit of practice to perform well, but once you get used to the feeling you will be able to enjoy it to the fullest. Some men even claim that urethral sounding is addictive and difficult to stop once you learn how to do it properly. There is nothing wrong with that, as long as you are careful and follow all the safety guidelines.

You may choose between many different types of urethral sounds according to your preferences and desires. Beginner users should use shorter, straight sounds because these toys do not go too deep. More experienced users can choose longer, curved sounds made for deep urethral play. Each sound produces a unique sensation so there is something for everyone. Also, as a beginner, you can try short and small penis plugs. These are ideal toys for new users who want to try urethral play for the first time. 

Male sounding: Something New

Urethral sounding allows men to experience something new. If you are bored with your usual masturbation routine and would like to spice things up, this is one of the best ways to go. Urethral play is not for everyone, but if the idea of inserting toys into the penis sounds appealing to you, go for it! While it requires some practice and skill to get it right, once you get used to the feeling you will discover some truly new ways to pleasure yourself. This is why urethral sounding is ideal for adventurous people who wish to try something new and exciting.

Some men have a bit of doubt about urethral sounding. It is understandable: inserting things into the penis seems counter-intuitive. However, don’t let this thought stop you or prevent you from enjoying. If you are intrigued by urethral stimulation, try it to see if this is something you like. 

Keep in mind that urethral sounding is truly something different – this is a completely new approach to pleasure. As such, it may seem strange or even uncomfortable at first. The goal is to be relaxed, to go slowly and let your body get accustomed to the sensation. You may find that you love this new type of stimulation. 

On the other hand, you may discover that this is not something you enjoy. That is OK. Urethral play is not for everyone, but at least you can say you have satisfied your curiosity. 

Unique Sensations

One of the main benefits of urethral sounding is that it produces truly unique sensations. In other words, there is no feeling like this one. Urethral play is one of a kind experience and it is very difficult to describe to those who have never attempted it. This is why it’s important to try it for yourself if you find this sexual activity intriguing. That is the only way to find out if these new sensations are something you like or not.

One word of advice before you start: sounding is truly something new, so it may not feel great in the beginning. When you are a beginner, your urethra is still too narrow and untrained. It means that it cannot accommodate thicker toys and sounding may feel a bit uncomfortable. You may also experience a burning sensation during or after sounding. Keep in mind that all of this is normal, especially when you are a beginner. Just make sure to go slowly and use plenty of lube. This will make the experience more comfortable and it will allow you to gradually get used to the feeling of sounding and toys inside of your urethra. Once you get used to the sensations, chances are that you will find them very pleasurable.

That being said, keep in mind that urethral sounding should not cause injuries or other problems. There is some risk associated with this activity: urinary tract infections and injuries to the urethra. It is important to follow all safety guidelines to avoid these problems. Also, make sure to notice all the warning signs. Sharp pain, prolonged discomfort, swelling, blood in urine or semen, fever – these are all signs you should not ignore. If you experience any of these problems, make sure to consult your doctor immediately.  

Remember: urethral sounding may be intense but it should not cause serious injuries or other problems.

Stronger Orgasms

Urethral sounding is known to cause powerful orgasms. For many men, this is the main benefit of sounding. With toys being inserted into the urethra, the orgasms become stronger and longer-lasting. This is one of the most effective ways to bring pleasure to a completely new level.

How does Urethral sounding work? 

There are many ways in which sounding can enhance your orgasms. One of the most common ways is to use the so-called “in and out” sounding. This technique means moving the sound up and down for an inch or two. Some people describe it as “fucking” your urethra. These movements massage the walls of your urethra, making it more sensitive. When the orgasm comes, it feels stronger because the tissue is extra sensitive.

Perhaps the most popular technique for making your orgasms stronger is to remove the sound during ejaculation. Keep in mind that you can do this only with straight urethral sounds that can be safely removed while the penis is erect. Not all sounds are safe to remove during erection, so make sure to check if the sound you want to use can be removed while the penis is still erect. Removing the sound during ejaculation makes the semen accumulate under the sound. The sound makes pressure and once it’s removed the semen “explodes” at a force. This makes the orgasm very powerful and unforgettable.

Finally, some men choose to keep the sound inside of the penis during orgasm. This is an advanced technique of urethral sounding and cannot be performed with all types of sounds, so make sure to check if your toy can be used in this way. Also, keep in mind that there is a risk associated with this technique, so it is reserved for more experienced users. With this technique, you keep the sound inside during orgasm. The body of the sound prevents semen to be ejaculated, which created powerful sensations. Instead of being ejected from the body, the semen goes back to the bladder and is expelled during next urination. 

Keep in mind that there will be some dripping and some semen will get ejaculated in a normal way even with the sound inside. Again, this technique may produce strong sensations but it carries certain risks so it’s reserved only for the most experienced users. It is advisable to consult a kink-friendly doctor before you attempt this method.

Direct Prostate Stimulation

Milking Stick for direct prostate stimulation

Perhaps the most amazing benefit of urethral sounds is that they can be used for prostate stimulation. In fact, this is the only way to massage your prostate directly. The most popular method of prostate stimulation is through the anus. This is a relatively easy way since the prostate can be felt just a few inches deep. Simply insert a finger into your anus (or have your partner insert a finger into you) and you will be able to find the prostate relatively easily. It can be felt as a walnut-sized gland that can be stimulated through the anal wall.

You can use fingers or special toys, such as P-Spot Stimulators or Milking Toys, to stimulate your prostate through the anus.

However, this is an indirect way to reach your prostate. You will not have direct contact with the prostate since it’s always felt through the anal wall. If you wish to stimulate your prostate directly, the only way is through the urethra. Which means that you have to use urethral sounds.

Remember: This is an advanced technique reserved only for the more experienced users. This is different than the usual sounding. 

In order to stimulate your prostate through the urethra, you need to perform deep urethral stimulation. It means that you have to go very deep, past the base of the penis. Once you go this deep, you can reach a bit further inside of the body and you will find your prostate. This way, you can massage it directly using the tip of your toy. Some men even like to insert the toy into the prostate. Others go even deeper, all the way to the bladder. All these activities produce unique sensations.

If you wish to massage your prostate using sounds, keep in mind that this is an activity reserved only for the most experienced users. You need to be very familiar with sounding and how it works before you even attempt prostate stimulation. Also, it is highly advisable to consult a kink-friendly doctor before you attempt this type of stimulation. It is vital to get some medical advice and to make sure that it is safe for you to perform this activity.

Penis Gets Bigger and Stronger

Urethral sounding has one additional benefit: it makes your penis bigger and stronger, at least temporarily. While this is not a technique made for enhancing your erections or improving your performance, urethral sounding does make your penis more powerful. However, this effect is temporary and doesn’t work the same for all people. If you wish to make your penis bigger and your erections stronger, you should use specialized sex toys, such as cock rings. Urethral sounds are not made for penis enhancement.

That being said, urethral sounding can make your penis harder, so it’s a nice additional effect. Sounds can make your penis appear bigger and more powerful. You will also find out that your erections are much stronger with a Surgical Steel rod inserted into your penis. This also makes you more sensitive and thus improves the sensations.

Keep in mind that it may be difficult to use sounds to enhance your performance during sex with your partner. Having penetrative sex with a sound inserted is not always safe. This is a risky activity that can lead to injuries. While there are some people who have positive experiences with this, it is mainly through the use of smaller toys, such as penis plugs. However, even these can have sharper tops so there is still a risk of an injury. Therefore, it is not advisable to attempt penetrative sex with a urethral toy inserted.

Building Intimacy for Couples

One of the most exciting advantages of urethral sounds is that they make great toys for couples. While only one person can have a sound inserted, this is a great toy that both partners can enjoy. One partner wears the sound while the other is the one inserting it. This is a great activity for building trust and intimacy between partners, so it is not surprising that many couples practice urethral sounding as a partner activity.

This is particularly true for those who enjoy fetish play, BDSM and medical toys. After all, sounds are used for true medical examinations, so they are more than just toys. This is great news for all those who wish to try some medical play. Sounds are also great for many different kink activities, including power and control, as well as painful pleasures. If you enjoy erotic pain, you can sure experience it through urethral sounding.

That is not to say that sounding has to be painful – regular sounding is not even uncomfortable, especially if your urethra is stretched properly and if you use plenty of lube. However, if you wish to make it extra intense or even painful, it is possible to achieve that.

As you can see, urethral sounding can accommodate many different tastes and preferences. It offers numerous benefits, as long as you follow safety guidelines and know how to perform urethral stimulation properly.

Urethral Sounding for Beginners & Common Fears

Many people, particularly newbies, have numerous fears about urethral stimulation. It is okay to be scared: after all, urethral stimulation does bring some risks and you need to know how to avoid them. This is why it’s important to follow all safety guidelines and to consult a kink-friendly doctor who can help you stay safe during urethral play.

Here are some common fears about urethral sounding:

  • I will not be able to Insert Sounds

This is one of the most common fears that beginners have. It is not unfounded: inserting sounds and other urethral toys do take some practice. However, it is not impossible. You need to go slowly and carefully. Keep in mind: this is not something that can be rushed and it will not happen out of nowhere. Many people need to dedicate some time to be able to insert their urethral toys. This is why it’s best to start with shorter toys ideal for beginners. Also, it might help to use urethral stretchers and trainers first. These are special urethral toys that will help you stretch your urethra so you can insert larger toys. Others prefer to use urethral sounds from the beginning. If you choose to go this way make sure to be patient and to go slowly. This is a process that will likely take some time.

  • Sound will go too Deep

Most types of urethral sounds are long enough to go very deep. They can reach your prostate or even bladder. This is good news if you wish to try deep urethral stimulation, but not all people are into this. As a beginner, you should not insert your toys too deep. 

The good news here is that the sound will not slip too deep on its own. It may go down your urethra all the way to the base of your penis, but even this is not considered deep. If this happens, you can easily take the sound out without problems. In fact, putting the sound deeper than this requires some effort so there is not really fear that it might go even deeper. The best way to prevent the sound from going too deep is to go slowly and gently. You are the one controlling the sound so make you are careful. This may be difficult in the heat of the moment but it is possible. You need to be careful about this. It comes with practice so people with more experience can usually relax during sounding and still control their toys without going too deep.

  • Sound will hurt my Urethra

This is one of the most important things when it comes to urethral sounding. It is vital to make sure that the sound doesn’t hurt your urethra. There are many safety guidelines you should follow to prevent this. First of all, make sure to use only proper urethral toys. Never use random objects or household items for sounding. Make sure that your urethral toys are of high-quality. This will help in keeping you safe. Another thing to think about is to be careful during sounding. Make sure to go slowly and use plenty of lube. There are many men who enjoy urethral stimulation to the fullest and never hurt their urethra. However, it is important to be very careful and familiar with the safety guidelines in order to avoid problems. Sounds should not hurt your urethra, but you need to be careful and go slowly.

  • I will hurt myself if I cum with Sound Inside

This is something you need to be careful about. Many people like to ejaculate with the sound inserted, while others do not like the feeling. If you cum with the sound inside, you can expect some leakage (the semen will drip around the sound). Keep in mind that sounds rarely provide a tight fit. In other cases, the sound may block the semen so you may experience retrograde ejaculation. This happens when the semen goes back to the bladder and is expelled from the body at next urination. For many people, this is safe, but this is not something you should do often. In other words, cumming with the sound inside is safe in many cases. However, there are men who should not do this because of medical reasons. This is why it’s best to consult a kink-friendly doctor before you even attempt urethral sounding, particularly ejaculation with the toy inside. You need to make sure that it is safe for you to cum with the sound inside. If it’s safe from a medical point of view, chances are that you will not hurt yourself. There are many men who enjoy to cum with a urethral toy inside and they don’t suffer injuries.

  • My body will hurt after Sounding

This is another reasonable fear. After all, sounding can seem very invasive, as much as it’s pleasurable. However, it should not hurt. In fact, pain is a warning sign that something is wrong. While some people, particularly beginners, feel some discomfort or even mild pain, this should never be pronounced. Sharp pain is a major warning sign. If you feel it, make sure to consult your doctor immediately. Luckily, this doesn’t happen often. You need to go slowly and use plenty of lube to minimize risks. 

Again, urethral sounding should not hurt. What you may experience, particularly as a newbie, is some burning sensation during urination. This typically happens after sounding, even for those people who have lots of experience. However, this burning should not be too uncomfortable. If it persists, make sure to consult your doctor because it might be a sign of a urinary tract infection or an injury.

Okay! Now we know that Urethral sounding is a fun and sensual experience, but where to start?

Many beginners are intrigued by this type of stimulation but some toys may seem too intimidating. Other people are familiar with urethral stimulation but only when using penis plugs.

What to do when you wish to try urethral sounds for the first time?

Here are some useful tips for beginners who want to try urethral sounding for the first time:

Choosing the Best Toy 

Before you start, you will need some important things:

  • Find an appropriate sound.

This is the most important step. It’s crucial to choose a toy that fits your body perfectly. Beginners should start small and build their way up from there. Keep in mind that sounds are generally longer than penis plugs so if you’re used to plugs only, it may take some adjustments before you are fully comfortable with your sound. A good sound for a beginner is smaller and not really thick. It’s best to use a sound that’s not very ribbed because ribbed exterior makes the experience more intense. While this is a great thing for sexual enjoyment, you might want to train your urethra first before moving to more demanding toys.

  • Make sure it’s clean.

Your toys have to be properly sanitized before you use them. Cleaning it with a bit of water is not enough. This is why metal urethral toys are the best: they are easy to sterilize. You can rub them with alcohol but it might not be enough. You should also boil them in water before each use. Make sure to clean your sound properly before you start.

  • Make sure your hands and body are clean.

Your toys are not the only thing involved in urethral play. It’s vital that you are clean, too. Make sure to sanitize your hands and clean your genitalia. If you wish to try urethral sounding with a partner, make sure that they are clean, too. Some people even like to use surgical gloves for extra protection (this is particularly popular in medical role-playing and using urethral sounds as medical toys).

  • Use plenty of lube.

Urethral stimulation is not possible without a generous amount of lube. Do not even attempt any sounding or another type of urethral stimulation without lube. Also, make sure that the lube is appropriate. It’s best to use sterile lube specially made for urethral and medical use.

 Insert Your Sound

Once you’re ready, it’s time to insert your sound. Before you start, make sure that your urethra is wide enough to accommodate it. It you feel resistance or discomfort, stop immediately and move to a smaller sound. If you still experience pressure and pain, wait a little and choose smaller urethral toys. It’s important to train your urethra before you move to more demanding toys.

Here are the steps on how to insert a sound properly:

  1. Start with lube. Apply a generous amount on the tip of your penis, particularly on the opening. Take your toy and apply a lot of lube to it, especially on the tip of the toy.
  2. Take your sound with one hand and place the tip on the penis opening. Keep in mind that many sounds require you to be flaccid in order to insert them. In general, inserting a sound into a flaccid penis is easier than inserting into an erect one.
  3. Press the toy gently into the opening and let it slide gently inside. You should not encounter resistance or pain. You should never force a sound into the urethra.
  4. Let the sound settle on its own. It will stop at the deepest point of your urethra, or the deepest point your urethra can accommodate at the moment. Do not force it further in!
  5. Allow some time for your urethra to get used to the toy and accommodate it. You can add more lube if necessary.
  6. If you wish to go deeper, try changing the angle of penetration. Urethra has a natural bend at one point so changing the angle may help pushing the toy further. However, this should not be painful so if you encounter major resistance or discomfort, stop.
  7. Once the sound is comfortably inserted, you may start stimulating your penis to bring it to erection. You may even slide the toy in and out to enhance the experience. Experiment until you find out what works best.

How to Train for Deep Urethral Stimulation?

The way you perform urethral stimulation is down to your individual preferences, anatomy, experience level and some other factors. It is therefore not surprising that there are many different ways to perform urethral sounding. Some people prefer shallow or in-and-out urethral play. Others prefer deep urethral stimulation.

If you are satisfied with beginners’ stimulation that is somewhat shallow, this is okay. However, you may be intrigued by deep urethral sounding but unsure if this is something you should try. Here is a handy guide to deep urethral sounding that will help you decide.

The Main Reasons for Deep Urethral Sounding

There are many reasons why people may wish to try deep urethral sounding:

  • New sensations. Deep urethral stimulation brings new feelings and sensations. You can simply not achieve these feelings through regular (shallow) urethral play. If you want to experience something new then deep urethral sounding may be a great thing for you.
  • Enhanced experience. Deep urethral stimulation takes urethral sounding to a new level. It enhances the whole experience and makes everything feel bigger and “more” in every sense. If this is something that appeals to you, try deep urethral stimulation to see how it feels.
  • More intensity. Deep urethral sounding is more intense than shallow urethral play. Once the toy is inserted deeper down than the base of the penis the feeling becomes very powerful and extra strong. This is why deep urethral sounding is an ideal activity for those who want their urethral play to be powerful and very intense. If you appreciate intensity, then this is a good activity to try.
  • Prostate stimulation. This might actually be the number one reason for deep urethral sounding. If you insert your urethral toy deep inside, past the base of the penis, you may reach your prostate. In fact, this is the only way to directly massage your prostate. Many men enjoy prostate stimulation and even prostate milking, so deep urethral stimulation is a great way to experience this. If you wish to try prostate stimulation but are not satisfied with P spot massage through the anus, deep urethral sounding may be a great thing for you.

Be Careful: Stay Safe During Deep Urethral Sounding

As you can see, deep urethral stimulation offers numerous benefits so it is not surprising that there are many reasons for deep urethral sounding. On the other hand, this is definitely an activity reserved only for the more advanced users. You need to be very experienced with urethral stimulation and regular forms of sounding before you attempt this one.

Make no mistake about this: deep urethral sounding can bring certain problems and have a higher risk of injuries and other issues. This is particularly true for those who wish to try prostate or bladder massage. For this reason, it is vital to go slowly and be very careful, especially until you are fully experienced with deep urethral stimulation.

Also, keep in mind that this is not an activity for everyone. You may discover that you don’t like deep urethral sounding at all. This is OK. As said in the beginning, we are all individuals with our own preferences, and deep urethral sounding just might not be the right sexual activity for you. If this is the case, make sure not to force it if you are not enjoying any aspect of it.

Train for Urethral Deep Stimulation

Deep urethral play and prostate massage is something that many people want to try. However, it is very important that you do this gradually so you don’t hurt your urethra. The best way to approach urethral play is through urethral training and stretching. This is where training toys are so useful. At the same time, these toys are not always big enough to reach truly deep into the urethra. This can make a problem for those who want to train for deep urethral stimulation.

Train for Deep Urethral Stimulation with Toys

Van Bueren Urethra Sounding Kit

One of the best ways to train for deep urethral stimulation is with urethral toys.

After all, the only way to reach the prostate and feel deep urethral massage is if you have a long enough toy. At the same time, it is also important that you train your urethra so it is wide enough to accept urethral toys.

The most popular training toys are those that stretch the urethra with the goal of making it wider for urethral toys. Most of these urethral trainers and stretchers are shorter, smaller toys. This is understandable: after all, the goal is to train the pee hole and urethra inside of the penis. This is where urethral stimulation begins and this is where you need to stretch your urethra to accept proper urethral toys.

These stretchers are great because they have segments of varying diameter so you can train your urethra gradually. Simply start by inserting the smallest segment and work your way up from there. You should not have much problem if you go slowly and give your body enough time to rest between sessions. Also, keep in mind that urethral stretching is a process that can take many days or even weeks so don’t rush things out.

Unfortunately, not all of these gradual stretchers are long enough to help you train for deep urethral stimulation. Most of them are great for testing and trying shallow urethral stimulation and for stretching the portion of the urethra that is inside of the penis shaft. These toys are often not long enough to reach deep into the urethra. So, what to do?

Train with Long Toys

The good news is that it is possible to train for deep urethral stimulation with toys, but they need to be long enough in order to reach your prostate and part of the urethra that is beyond the base of the penis.

Chances are that you might be able to find a stretcher that is long enough to reach deep into the urethra. If it cannot reach the prostate it can at least go as deep as the base of the penis. Do not underestimate urethral stretchers and trainers: some of them are surprisingly long.

Another way to train for deep urethral stimulation is to use proper, long urethral toys. Once you are ready to start going deep and doing prostate massage, you are not a beginner user anymore. By this time, you should be able to insert regular urethral toys and to get your urethra stretched. You should be ready to move on to bigger and longer toys that can reach deep into the urethra so you can enjoy prostate massage and deep urethral play.

Regular urethral sounds are generally good for this. It is best to choose ones that are specially designed for deep urethral play, such as Van Buren sounds. However, keep in mind that these are very intense and reserved only for users with plenty of experience. This is why it is better to start with less demanding urethral sounds, such as Hegar sounds. These are good for exploring deeper urethral play than training toys, but without going way too deep right from the start.

About Craig:
Craig Rutledge is a staff writer for TheChainGang. His main interests include sex toys for men, particularly urethral sounds and ball stretchers. He is also a proud owner of numerous body piercings. He says: “I am happy to contribute with my experience and knowledge about various penis toys and stretching devices. There is still so much unknown about things like urethral sounding, ball stretching or male chastity and it needs to change. I will share my experience and advice in order to help men, young and old, to discover these toys and have the best fun”. In addition to writing, Craig also answers questions and provides handy advice for people learning more about extreme sex toys for men.

53 thoughts on “Urethral (Penis) Sounding: For Beginners & Advanced Users

  1. Hi there
    Urethal sounding have.a personal set
    And urethal Plug feels great.
    Very intense ejaculation unbelievable
    Have a madam. Who has.a pulsating
    Sound wonderful erections. Are totally
    Different I’m a. 60 year.old.male
    And still fucking thanks

    • great for you..would you know of any group to join and get experience as i will be new to this…

  2. I am seriously thinking about trying this. I was once told the hole i piss out is small and the doctor told me they can make it bigger by surgery and I said no thanks. If I were to try this what would you recomend to me as a beginner?TT

  3. How does the stretching affect pissing? Once stretched, does the urethra stay stretched
    to the max size used or does it shrink down to original diameter over time?
    Is there any problem pissing once you have stretched beyond a certain size sound?
    No one seems to mention if there are problems once you reach a certain size sounds
    usage.
    I’d like to ask my Dr., but I don’t think he’s understand, if you get my drift.

  4. How does it effect coming once you enlarge the urethra opening as well as the full length of your urethra tube?
    Does it ‘dribble’ or still ‘shoot’.when you come?
    I’d be interested in see someone with an enlarged opening trying to piss without hitting his shoes or it running down his leg.

  5. In the meantime, I get an 18mm plug into my Meatus Externus inside. That’s why I have now permanently used an 18mm penis plug with longitudinal bore. So I can again control pissing. For with a meatus external opening of 18 mm the urine occasionally sprayes uncontrolled. The plug is only for cleaning, or if I want to stretch the meatus. With the inserted plug I can also masturbieren good. The 17mm penis plug has dropped out after 2 weeks by itself. It looks so that one with this method also its meatus external opening can expand comfortably. The 18mm plug inserted now I do not feel at all. I wear the plug just to stretch the meatus externus, and to control the urine stream. The 18mm plug fits perfectly. The plug slips in and then you can not feel in any more, because it fits perfectly into the navicular urethrae fossa. When the plug slips out, you can combine it with a glans ring to keep it inside. At the moment I’m also going to stretch my urethra into the prostate. I can now introduce a Hegar dilator with 12mm diameter and 19cm length.

  6. What happens to all the surgilube after all said and done?
    If you inject 40 – 60 – 8- cc of ii into you piss tube & most stays in, plus what you put on the
    sound or whatever, you can have 100 cc floating around inside you dick’s system.
    What happens to it all if you don’t shoot your load off, is it absorbed by your system or builds up some where inside to come out later or what?
    Don’t want to go pee some day and have a stream of surgilube come out instead.
    So any one knows what happens to it, or should I ask my gal if she tastes any thing different
    the next time I get a blow job from he?

  7. Love to sound myself with surgical tubing, approx 5 mm. I can get over 2 ft inside of me and enjoy threading this tube thru my prostate and into my bladder. I do release a small amount of urine as I insert the length, but this can be “mopped up” as needed!
    When I have the full length inside of me, I experience what feels like orgasms about every 6 to 8 minutes as I get the urge to pee. I’ve run the tubing well inside of me to the point where I wonder if I’ll be able to remove it, but my penis always pushes it out. I just takes some time (a couple of hours sometimes) but well worth the effort!
    I also am working on enlarging my penis hole to the point where I can insert my little finger inside of me. I’d like to widen this all the way down to the base of my penis…

    • I’d like to see how you do that because I have been starting to get the urge for prostate massage and I would like to see the technique of the insertion

  8. Yes, it is moving forward. I now always begin to stretch the meat at 17 mm, and rise to 18 mm. Since I’m now stretching by 19 mm to reach. On the prostate I pass by 11.5 mm. It is a nice feeling to push the Hegar Dilator 19cm into the prostate. After half an hour I push a 12 mm dilator. Then I leave the dilator 1-2 hours inserted. After that, I always masturbate beautifully and ejaculate. I always climb in 0.5 mm steps. A big jump takes about 2-3 months with two to three exercise units per week. I started with a diameter of 6 mm.

  9. I’m going to be a beginner at sounding and need advice at what I should start with and what type of lube I should use. All of what I have read sounds really exciting.

  10. Hi I have a sounding question. When you dilate large enough, does that lead to the ejaculate “dribbling” out of the penis more? Or does it still kind of shoot out even though the hole is a lot larger

  11. One can get a decent set at Amazon.
    Also get the large tube of Surgilube.
    When you first start , don’t use the
    smallest size , have the sound well
    lubed and it’s easier to insert when
    you’re soft . When inserting the sound
    should glide in fairly easily. Never force!
    A bit of burning is common afterward
    even for the experienced.

  12. after reading this great advice, i tried out my first sound at 6mm. Instead of boiling my SS sound, i just soaked it in a 50/50 of bleach and water for a few minutes, rinsed, then swabbed with alcohol juuuust to be sure. i had an awesome lube from chinese wish . com . So far to me they have the slipperiest lube i have ever used. I was worried about it being sterile so i ran the bottle under steaming tap water for about 5 mins and i must say I wish i had done this right out of puberty! what an unreal different sensation during the insertion and removal. Exactly as mentioned above, if you feel discomfort, you going to fast. It feels better anyways when it slowly drops down with its own weight. Being nervous just adds to the pleasure, trust me. and finally i washed my already shaved pubic area and rubbed Betadine/iodine on my head . Its a bit over doing it with being sterile, but when i was done i didnt even have burning. CLEANLINESS NUMBER 1. after dat your boto is safe! Aaaloha

  13. I remember sounding with a buddy when I was in grade school…Found his uncle’s plastic sound and used it…Guess we were lucky not to get UTIs, but remember how great it felt…Now that I’m older, my erections and cum shots need all the help they can get….Can’t wait to get started again, would love to share a sound with another guy, even though this seems risky…

  14. Hi I’m thinking about estim using a silicone sound, i bought several sizes 9.5 mm and 11.5mm was wondering if there is any special instructions about estim vs just using a sound, I’ve been reading but not too much about the electro estim side of sounding. Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated.

  15. Hello..Posted here before and I don’t see my post..It was regarding catheter use…I’ve been sounding for some time now..Also have catheterized myself..WOW…Entering your bladder and urinating is HOT..Then when I J/O afterwards the cumming is intense…I’ve been looking for catheters and other sounding options..or guys interested in the NYC area…Hit me up with any thoughts or info ! Peace Ramon

  16. Hi. I too enjoy sounding. Unfortunately, I did cause a rupture when the sounding too went in deep ie the full length. There was so much blood and it took ages to stop. The towel was soaked with blood and there was a time of blacking out. It scared the shit out of me. However, the idea of sounding still appeals to me but not sure how to proceed.

    • There are doctors that specialize in this, I often see licensed counselors and therapist (try talkspace) online so just check their specialty/pro info. If desired, I bet they can refer you to medical Dr that is understanding & knowlegdeable.

  17. I am relatively new to sounding although I did buy a set of Van Buren sounds several years ago but have been too nervous to use them other then a brief exploratory go. However, over the last few months I have been experimenting more and more with a beaded plug and vibrating sound which I have really enjoyed using. I know the advice has always been to start small but I jumped straight in with the plug at 10mm and the vibrating sound at 8mm and both felt fine although the plug did need some persuading initially before the bead popped in, a really nice feeling 🙂 The latter 8mm vibrating sound is a bit small for me in all honestly but I still really enjoy using it. In addition I bought a 12mm sound probe with the single large bead on top but so far I have not managed to get that in. Not sure why but it just can’t slip into the head. Same goes for a12mm plug that I bought and have tried several times.

    I would definitely like to use the Van Burens for prostate massage but I’m nervous in case I do any damage by pushing it in too far. I tried tonight and got it down the length of my shaft and could feel the curved end going underneath and there was no discomfort with doing that but I left it at that and will try again tomorrow.

    Any and all advice on using the VB’s and the 12mm plug and sound gratefully received as I really want to experience the stretch feeling they will provide.

  18. My sounding adventures started with a Q Tip , Led to many different plugs ( shapes and sizes ) , I prefer the Hager sound, smooth and have, for me the right length.. I’m using the 13-14 mm sound and have finally got past the 1/2 way insertion point, total pleasure and the 14mm is starting to probe its way into the tip of my cock , with the goal of total immersion … I’ll get there,, it’s just a fulfilling feeling.. I’ve had two issues with blood spurting from my cock and several tears in the slit, but I push on … surgilube n vasilene combined work the best but if I go slow, no more issues.. and again there’s no feeling like this, would love to find a group of us …

    • The only insertables that do not retain bacteria are stainless steel and silicone I use ky or astroglide, I get a uti every time I use vaseline, vaseline is great on the outside tho, perhaps a thimble full of mineral first .

  19. Hey Ramon, Jay from Long Island here, just saw your comment and I also enjoy using catheters, in fact the reason I’m looking into sounding is to enlarge my urethra to accept larger foley catheters for extended periods with a leg bag so I no longer have any control of my bladder…hot!!! I hope we can get together and sound each other and then cath n cum together. hotter!!

  20. I have been sounding for 7 months I am not sure if doing it correctly I use plenty lube but I can’t get size nine to go in I I have been triing for past 3 weeks. I have fun with size 8 but want to move on

  21. I sometimes pee while sounding even if I use the bathroom right before inserting the sound. I really enjoy precumming when sounding, but the urination I could do without. I’m only using Hegar Sounds, so I know I’m not in contact with my bladder. Any thoughts?

    • This is QuitaDick-

      So the other night I experimented with a larger diameter sound and had GREAT results. I’m not quite sure what size I had been using, but I purchased a sound that is 2 sizes larger than I regularly use, and no urination. I started by using my normal Hegar sound, and once I started precumming, I lubed up the larger sound and inserted VERY slowly. Maybe 15 minutes later, I had the urge to pee, and the sound started to come out of my penis, but I stopped it and pushed it back in, and out came a dollop of beautiful, clear precum!

  22. Added benefit to sounding.
    Ever since I can remember it has burned at the tip of my penis to urinate, and later masturbation hurt too at the climax.
    After regular sounding that pain ceased.
    I don’t know if it was stretching of the urethra or straightening of it but it’s a benefit I didn’t expect.

  23. So, I tried something new with sounding last night with great results. I use Hegar sounds, and since the urethra passes down the middle of the prostate, I theorized that if I applied pressure to the lower end of the sound, I could stimulate my prostate more. I allowed about a centimeter of the sounding rod to remain outside my penis when it was flaccid, and slowly applied pressure to each side of my prostate. If your penis is erect, you can allow the sound to slide all the way in and apply extra pressure to the prostate by slowly moving your penis from side-to-side. Then I pulled the sound out about maybe halfway then reinserted several times, and out came clear, sweet nectar (precum)! I’ll try this method out again tonight and see what happens: hopefully more Bliss!

  24. I have been enjoying Urethral Pleasure for over 35 years, I was introduced to the erotic sensations while recovering from an accident. I would become aroused from catheters, sounding and dilation procedures during treatment and recovery. After recovery, I continued playing, enjoying the sensations. Over the years, I have experimented with many urethral toys, plugs, sounds etc, various types of lube and penis toys. My favorites are silicone toys, plugs and sounds, but I do enjoy using stainless steel plugs and sounds. A favorite pleasure is wearing a 8 inch long, 14mm diameter silicone sound all day while at work or whole doing daily activities, the sensations of it moving in my flaccid penis are incredible.

  25. I have enjoyed Urethral Pleasure for over 40 years. I was introduced to the erotic sensations while recovering from an accident and have continued since. I enjoy a variety of plugs, sounds and rings, both silicone and stainless steel. I especially enjoy extended wear of these, and play 5 or 6 days a week.

  26. I just got mine today & used it there was a little bit of blood from my penis which scared me as I didn’t know this was going to happen but I have read about it now so I’m ok with it I think

    When is it safe to masturbate after use ?

    How often should I use my dilator sound ?

    Any advice would be appreciated

  27. I had the green light procedure (rotor rooter of the prostate ) because I could not pee and I was catheterizing myself 3 times a day. Now when I cum, it goes backwards into my bladder. I never see cum/Semen anymore. It took me 2 years of masterbating/JO to understand the process. No doctor toll me what to expect or any advice. Very disappointing.
    I am wondering if sounding could give me the pleasure I used to get. Massaging my prostate to feel a orgasm. Any help or advice would be helpful

  28. How often can I sound my penis I been doing for months can do it once a week or once a day I’ve read tons of articles. And no tell how much and how. Long I can safely sound my penis I’ve bought a lot of toys from your store and it always good quality just want to have fun and not get hurt thanks

  29. I bought a 9.50 inch ribbed straight sounding. Can I enter it in full? When penetrating it comes easy in 8 inch. Can you explain if I got to the bladder? How do I know if I got into the prostate or bladder?

    • As a beginner I’d suggest sterilized sounds that are smaller in diameter and length to prevent an experience that’s not pleasant. All men are basically similar in anatomy but everyone truly is different so going slow with a non ribbed sound is my suggestion. I’ve used longer sounding tools that entered my bladder and I know this mostly by the instant flow of urine. Look up the actual basic anatomy of the male genitalia and the urinary tract. Look at the actual anatomy of the urethra and also where the prostate gland is located so you’ll be more in tune with your sound!! I like helping new people in private settings as it helps them understand how to receive pleasure. If you start to big and too long out of the gates you might be in for a painful experience. Take the time to enjoy your anatomy and always keep your songs m sounds clean with a good amount of warm water with soap or sanitized with a solution of betadine which can be done in any pharmacy. Good luck. Peter

  30. Uhem…. Not only men can do that.,…
    ?

    I want to try this stuff since im bored and want to do some extreme stuff again ?
    I cant stop, nor i ever would.
    It’s just nice to read finally a guideline for this

  31. For me,,it takes 3 depths,, the first is past the base of my penis,, then it enters my prostate gland,,
    Babes ,,I almost jump out of bed!!
    Than 3rd,,it enters my bladder,,what a feeling ,, my sound is a 24inch long
    3/8 wide food grade tube,,I go 22 inches deep!! Than I usually cumm!!

    • Hey, I’ve been sounding for a year now with long sounds 24″
      I’m completely shaved except my head lol.
      My ass and anus is fresh and clean
      I want to start using big dildos,
      I’m semi bi sexual and like to suck a nice penis from time to time and
      Get Fucked in my smooth ass, but when I’m alone I think I’d like big dildo 8-19″long up my ass,
      Not to mention a .30 size sound in my penis, .any ideas would help lmk

  32. Been sounding for a few months. I made real progress when I had my place completely to myself for the entire night….so no rushing. Got all my toys, lube, alcohol wipes, etc and made myself comfortable on the couch. Put the tv on for background ‘ambience’ and took my time. My sounds are solid stainless, j curved at both ends, and double ended in FR numbers: 21/23, 25/27, 29/31, etc. For what seemed forever I was stuck on 25 (8.33 mm) and couldn’t get in the 27 no matter what I did. But that same evening when I took my time, no rushing, no anxiety of invasion of privacy I finally made the jump to 27 (9 mm) and it felt great! The 27 felt soooo nice in my prostate! Less than one hour later I stuffed in the 29 (9.66 mm)….wow, now that was an experience. Now that my cock was properly stuffed with the 29 (just to the base) I then got off the couch and walked around with what seemed to be a massive sound hanging and swinging from my cock. It was in tight so no chance of slipping out. The sounds are a bit hefty so it was beyond pleasurable having a 29 stuffed inside with the larger 31 (10.33 mm) end hanging out swinging around. All told I played for close to 5 hours. The pleasure of playing uninterrupted with all the time in the world was the best. The 5 hours just flew by. Too bad I started so late because by 4 am it was time for sleep. I cleaned everything up and quickly fell asleep. By 10:30 am in the morning I had the 29 stuffed back in. Wish I had discovered this years ago.

    • I highly recommend the Van Buren dialator set for safe play. Always wash your hands and cock prior to play. Sterilize the sounds and use rubbing alcohol to wipe them down immediately prior to play. Lube is cheap so use the kind that works best for you….no substitutes. Always urinate after play. Never leave a barely fitting or overly tight sound in for a long time or overnight as your body will absorb the lube and you’ll have a very difficult time getting it out. I only use solid sounds, no strung together beads or anything else that may come apart. The pee through plugs are very difficult to clean on the inside so be careful.
      As for prostate play what works for me is gentle stimulation taking my time.The other day I finally had an orgasm, semi erect with the sound fully in gently working my prostate. Enjoying the journey is what works for me…no rushing, no expectations other than learning what my body likes and how it reacts. Just this morning I stuffed the 27 (9mm) in after only 4 minutes of play. The more I play the more I learn how quickly I can push in the sound…and once it’s in the stinging from the stretching feels a little sharp but also calming as it subsides into simply have a fat sound stuffed into my cock….just love how it looks and feels. I usually put my stuffed cock into a vacuum pump chamber for extra sensations. Never rush playing and take your time.

  33. Thanks for the site

    love reading the comments from your self and members just wanted to know if there are any London members here i could meet up?

    for those of you who are new start with a small rod use metal one as they hurt less user lots of coconut oil it does … when you finish the first pee will hurt its normal….

    if you’re london based and would like to meet up please message me …..

  34. I have used both surgical steel sounding rods and plugs. Why is there resistance right as you start to insert at the tip of the head? Then there is a popping sensation and the sounder moves in until the next width meets resistance at the same point at the tip. What is that resistance caused by? Will it happen all the time?

  35. I am a 65yo male married for 25 years to a disabled woman 14 years my junior. Over the past year I have discovered the pleasure of sounding. We do this as an alternative to vanilla sex as the mrs has some problems now. She loves to pleasure me(her nature) and we have found both pegging and sounding as a way to keep me sexually happy without causing her to much discomfort. My question is though, as I have gone up to a 10mm hagar, I have used some long silicon rods that are somewhat longer than my steel rods. About 2-3 inches longer. They go through my prostate which has a extremely unusual sexual pleasure, but I feel it going deeper into my bladder(very gently of course). The ensuing orgasm is incredible and sometimes I have even come twice using this method. However, when I remove the silicon rod and take a pee, I get a powerful somewhat painful burn in my bladder which every time I pee for the next 2 -3 hours, the sharp pain is there(though diminishing every hour till it doesnt hurt). I would like to know what am I stimulating or pushing my rod through that causes this. I was recently checked (kidneys, liver, PSA blood tests all clear and a CT scan on my bladder) which were all clear. No infections found. Irt only happens when I go real deep. It is worth the pain after which I call ‘Paying the Piper’ and accept it as part of sounding, but I would really love to know, what am I stroking and is it normal to feel this after I cum?

  36. I started sounding using a metal crochet needle and now have progressed to makeup brush three times the thickness. Feels so good I kept it in all day and night yesterday!

  37. I got into sounding when an older male friend showed me his set and told me about it. I had actually used a glass thermometer as an 11 year old…so lucky it didn’t break! I actually like to sound on ocaisions when I want to have a really intense session. I don’t recommend this, but I personally like to push the limit on thickness to the point of mild/medium pain. When the larger sound makes that first release and it goes down my shaft, it triggers the most intense orgasm for me! I like the rush of pain and pleasure that competes against each other! I like removing the sound and watching/feeling the sperm ooze out!

  38. My brother and I started sounding when we were just boys using grass stems that you pull out and the end is very soft and flexible. We hadn’t got to puberty yet but really liked the feeling we got from doing that .Didn’t know it was called sounding back then, remember it hurt to pee after .Now I use proper sounds and have no problems.

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