I am always fearful of going “too deep”, did you see some blood on your first tries, and what is the best body position, ie lying down, sitting up in my chair? Any suggestions would be great, I’m not new to sounding but am just learning the correct way.
First attempts at urethral sounding are always both exciting and nerve-wrecking. As you probably know, this is a sexual activity that brings certain risks, so it is very important to be careful during your urethral stimulation. This is the only way to have a fun and successful urethral play.
It is therefore great to hear about people who do follow safety guidelines and who approach their urethral stimulation with care. As long as you go slowly and are careful, chances are that you will have a great and enjoyable urethral sounding experience.
Blood during Urethral Sounding
Is it normal to see some blood during first attempts at urethral sounding? It is certainly not unheard of. After all, urethra is very sensitive and can be hurt easily. This is why it’s so important to be careful.
If you experience only a few drops of blood without much pain and discomfort, chances are that it’s nothing serious. Especially if you are able to continue sounding without discomfort. However, in order to be certain that everything is fine, it is best to visit a kink-friendly doctor who can examine you and give you advice.
That being said, a bit of blood during first attempts at urethral sounding is not something unusual. While not all men experience it, it does happen. What is important is to learn how to prevent this from happening in the future. Make sure to always use plenty of lube and make yourself as relaxed as possible. Always use appropriate urethral toys that are not too big nor too thin for your urethra. Take your time and be very careful, especially until you learn how to perform urethral sounding properly.
Remember, this should not happen over and over again. In case you experience it again and again, make sure to consult a kink-friendly doctor. On the other hand, if it’s a past thing and if it doesn’t cause more trouble, well, chances are that you’ll be fine. (It’s still good to visit a doctor just to make sure you are 100% fine but yes, these things do happen to newbies sometimes. It is important not to ignore it if it happens.)
What is the Best Position for Urethral Sounding?
Again, it is vital to understand that there are some differences between people. Each person is an individual and there are some slight variation in anatomy. Also, the best position for urethral sounding will also depend on the toy you use. You need to take all of this into account before you decide on your position.
Generally speaking, however, most people prefer to do their urethral play while sitting. This allows for an easy access to the urethra. Furthermore, this position allows the man to manipulate both the sound and his penis in order to get the toy deep inside. This is not so important for beginner users who are only learning how to perform urethral stimulation but it becomes vital later on, when you start practicing deep urethral stimulation and prostate massage. If this is your thing, of course.
However, chairs are not always the best because they somewhat restrict both your comfort and ease of moves. It is best for you to have more space around you so you can lean forward and back, left and right, if needed. While many men like to perform urethral play while sitting on the chair, it is generally best for beginners to have as much space as possible.
For this reason, it is best for beginner users to sit on their bed. You can choose the exact position and experiment with different things until you find the one that works for you. On the other hand, you might discover that sitting on the chair is exactly what you need. Also, keep in mind that there are some men who thing that lying down is the perfect position for them.
Try to experiment to find out the best position for urethral sounding until you find it. Just make sure to go slowly and carefully. Generally speaking, however, sitting on your bed or elsewhere with enough space around you seems to work great for many people.
Craig Rutledge is a staff writer for TheChainGang. His main interests include sex toys for men, particularly urethral sounds and ball stretchers. He is also a proud owner of numerous body piercings. He says: “I am happy to contribute with my experience and knowledge about various penis toys and stretching devices. There is still so much unknown about things like urethral sounding, ball stretching or male chastity and it needs to change. I will share my experience and advice in order to help men, young and old, to discover these toys and have the best fun”. In addition to writing, Craig also answers questions and provides handy advice for people learning more about extreme sex toys for men.