What Size of Urethra Sound Should I Start With?

What Size of Urethra Sound Should I Start With?One of the most frequent questions asked about urethral stimulation and urethral play is about the size of urethral toys.

After all, size is one of the most important factors when it comes to urethral toys such as penis plugs and urethral sounds.

It’s not simply down to personal preferences, though these should be taken into account. There is also the issue of safety.

While urethral stimulation is a sexual activity that brings certain risks, it’s important to know that many of these risks can be avoided with careful use and by following all safety requirements. One of the most important things for ensuring safety is knowing how to use a toy of the right size. In other words, the toy’s size will have a huge impact on safety, so it’s vital to understand the risks and to know what you’re doing.

These questions are particularly important for beginner users who wish to know what size of urethra sound should they start with. Choosing a beginner’s urethral toy can be a tricky affair, but there are some important tips to follow that will help you make a good choice. If you are looking for your first urethral toy and wonder about the size, here are some of the most important things to take into account to make a good choice.

What’s a Toy Size?

The first thing you need to understand here is what “size” means exactly in the context of urethral toys. All urethral toys come in several standard sizes, but there are many different dimensions to take into account. Also, keep in mind that while there are some standard urethral toy designs, especially when it comes to urethral sounds, there are also numerous unique and original urethral toy shapes. Therefore, there are many potential designs you might encounter. This may make it difficult for a newbie user to choose. It is sometimes difficult to understand what “size” means when it comes to urethral toys.

Generally speaking, “size” may refer to different things. Sex toys come in many different shapes and lengths, and also in different weights. Some toys are small and light while others are big and massive. It may be easy to tell a small toy from a big one. When it comes to urethral toys, however, keep in mind that “size” mainly refers to the toy’s diameter.

With urethral toys, the diameter (toy’s thickness) is one of the most important things you need to take into account. It’s one of the most important parameters that determines whether a toy is suitable for beginners or not. While other parameters, such as toy’s material, length, weight and other factors do play a role in deciding whether a toy is good for beginners, diameter is one of the most important things you need to consider.

Why? Here’s the thing: the toy’s thickness determines whether it’s safe to insert said toy inside your urethra. The toy’s length determines how deep you can go, and while super-long urethral toys are definitely not made for beginners, keep in mind that you can always insert the toy only a little. In other words, you don’t have to insert the toy all the way down if you are not ready. When it comes to toy’s thickness, however, you can’t escape the diameter. It is how it is and your urethra must be able to accommodate it.

Similarly, toys of different materials, both soft and rigid, can be suitable for beginners. Even newbie users can try urethral toys made of metal. Do not be intimidated by Surgical Steel urethral toys: they are high-quality and body friendly. These metal toys are smooth and thus make for a surprisingly comfortable experience. When it comes to toy’s weight, while you shouldn’t go with super-heavy toys in the beginning, keep in mind that even beginners can use relatively heavy toys without a problem.

This is why size mainly refers to the toy’s diameter. It doesn’t mean that other factors, such as length, material or texture are unimportant. It just means that diameter is a very important parameter that should always be taken into account. If you are looking for your first urethral toy, make sure to pay attention to the toy’s diameter first.

Good Sizes, Bad Sizes: Urethral Toys Explained

Hegar Urethral Sounds KitNow that we established that you need to pay attention to the toy’s diameter, you need to learn more about good and bad sizes of urethral toys. Again, this will mainly refer to the diameter (thickness) of the toy.

There are two kinds of bad toy sizes: urethral toys that are too thin and those that are too thick. One would think that only too thick toys could be dangerous for beginners, but it’s not the case. While it is true that toys that are too thick are unsuitable for beginners, it is also true that thin toys can be even more dangerous. Do not choose urethral toys that are too thin for your urethra!

  • Thin toys are those that are smaller than the diameter of your urethra. You will recognize them by being too easy to insert. They will simply slip inside without properly touching the walls of your urethra. These toys can be very dangerous because they can act as sharp objects and create tears and false passages in the urethra. They are too sharp and too difficult to control. Therefore, they can be very dangerous, particularly for the beginner users. You should avoid them, at least until you get a significant experience with urethral toys.
  • Thick toys are those that are larger than the diameter of your urethra. These toys will be difficult or impossible to insert. They are very uncomfortable and can lead to painful overstretching. This is why they are not recommended for beginners. If you wish to use thick urethral toys, make sure to train and stretch your urethra first.
  • Toys of the right size are those that match your urethra in diameter. When inserted using lube, they should fit snugly inside the urethra. You should feel them against your urethral walls and they should not slip inside easily. On the other hand, they should not be too difficult to insert and they should not overstretch you. For most men, the first size they should order will be the second or third smallest available diameter. In other words, if ordering a sounding kit, the first sound you should use will be the second smallest or third smallest in the kit. Beware of the double ended sounds with different sizes on the ends. In this case, the first size you should use will be either the larger end of the smallest sound or the smaller end of the second smallest sound. Keep in mind, however, that these are only recommendations. A lot will depend on your individual anatomy so the beginner size you need might be different than these recommendations.

Please note: Many times, beginner users are recommended to use smaller urethral toys. However, keep in mind that “smaller” here mainly refers to the toy’s length. Shorter toys can be good for beginners. It is also important for your toys not to be big when it comes to diameter. Smaller diameters are better. That being said, “smaller” doesn’t mean “thinnest”. You should stay away from thinnest toys, especially as a beginner.

Keep in mind that while you need to pay close attention to the toy’s diameter, it doesn’t mean that other factors should be ignored. The toy’s length, for example, still plays a part. Two toys of the same diameter will make for two completely different experiences if one is short and the other one is super-long. This is yet another thing to keep in mind when choosing a toy for yourself.

Generally speaking, shorter urethral toys are better for beginners. Beginner users don’t have enough practice to allow for safe deep sounding, so it’s best to stick to the first few inches of the urethra. Beginners should not attempt to go deeper than the base of the penis, so shorter urethral toys are a better choice for these users. Keep in mind that the penis’ part of urethra provides a lot of sensitive spots and makes for a very arousing experience, so you will have a lot of fun even if you don’t go too deep. Once you get used to urethral stimulation you can try going deeper. You will need longer urethral toys to try deep urethral stimulation. However, this is not an activity recommended to beginner users.

What Size of Urethra Sound Should I Start With?

In and Out Princes WandAs mentioned above, your ideal first urethral toy will be shorter in length and not too thick but also not the thinnest available toy you can find. There are many smaller urethral plugs that are great for beginners who wish to try urethral stimulation for the first time.

Another good idea for a beginner urethral toy is urethral stretcher or trainer. These are specially designed urethral toys that are made for gradual stretching of your urethra. Use them to be able to take larger toys. They will help you make your urethra wider so it can accommodate urethral toys of bigger diameters.

When it comes to urethral sounds, the same guidelines apply. It’s best to start with shorter sounds, preferably those that are smooth. Make sure that the sound is not too thick for you but do not go after the thinnest sound in the kit. Most men find that the ideal starting size is second smallest in the kit, though some need to use the third smallest size to be safe. Keep in mind that these are just recommendations and that a lot will depend on your individual anatomy.

Here are some small urethral toys and sounds that are suitable for beginners. Keep in mind that “small” here refers mainly to the toy’s length. When it comes to diameters, these toys are not particularly thick but are not super-thin either.

Warning: What might be “thick” for one person may be “thin” for the other. Therefore, take our toy  recommendations as estimates only and not as an absolute rule. A toy that is safe for one man to use might be dangerous for another. This is why it’s vital to go slowly and stop the moment you see that a toy is too thick or too thin for you. When in doubt, it’s useful to consult a kink-friendly doctor. Do not take these toy recommendations as a rule. They are made for orientation only.

Some ideas for first urethral toys: Sleek & Hollow Penis Plug, “The Original” Penis Plug, Smooth Beginners Penis Plug, Standard Penis Plug, Hegar Urethral Sounds Kit, Pratt Urethral Beginners Sound Kit, Smooth as Silk Penis Pumper, Hank’s Dilator Set, In & Out Princes Wand, Dittle Sound Set, Rosebud Urethral Sounds Kit, Honey Hive Penis Plug with Thru Hole, Smooth Training Stretcher.

Stay Away from These Toys if You are a Beginner

Keep in mind that these toys are good for more experienced users. These users are familiar with urethral stimulation and know how to use their toys properly and safely. This is why they can experiment with more complex, bigger, thinner and other extreme urethral toys.

Here are some urethral toys that are NOT good for beginners but are great choice for experienced users looking for more intense and extreme urethral play: The Bullet Urethral Sound, Every Pleasure Known Sounding Rod, Van Buren Urethral Dilators Sounds, TX4 Penis Plug, Pogo Stick Cum Thru Penis Plug, The Masturbator, The Rip Stick Flat Head Penis Plug, Extra Long Penis Plug, 8 Ball Cue Stick with Holding Ring, Apollo 1 Penis Plug, Tapered Wave Plug, Extra Long Male Urethral Vibrator / Vibrating Sound, Cock Screw Penis Plug, Ribbed Urethral Sound.

To Recap

Here are quick tips to help you answer the important question: What Size of Urethra Sound Should I Start With?

  • Pay attention to toy’s diameter (thickness), first and foremost. Second, pay attention to toy’s length.
  • A toy should not be too thick nor too thin. Both are dangerous (thick toys will overstretch your urethra while thin can slip inside and tear your urethra).
  • Good thickness (diameter) of the toy is the one that matches your urethra. Both the toy and your urethra should have about the same diameter.
  • To choose a good size of a toy for beginners, make sure that your chosen toy is not too easy to insert and slip inside. On the other hand, it should not be too difficult to insert. Ideally, a toy will provide a snug but comfortable fit inside your urethra. You should feel it pressed on the walls of your urethra at all sides but with very little stretch.
  • If, at any point, a toy becomes uncomfortable, painful or difficult to control, make sure to take it out and try a toy of a different size. In case you encounter pain, bleeding, prolonged discomfort and other problems, make sure to consult your doctor.

Rosebud Sounds Guide

rosebud soundsRosebud Sounds are urethral toys with a special bulbous head. These are one of the best sounds for beginners, since they are thin, non-intimidating and relatively short. They also have a mostly smooth body, which improves comfort during use. All these characteristics make Rosebud sounds one of the best urethral toys for beginners.

The Design

Rosebud sounds have a characteristic design so it’s difficult to mistake them for any other type of urethral toys. These sounds have a very thin, long body and a characteristic, bullet-shaped tip. The tip is wider than the body of the sound, so it provides additional stimulation during use. The bulbous tip also serves as a safety: it makes the toy’s tip wider and thus safer to use. This is particularly important for beginner users who cannot use very thin toys because they are too sharp and thus dangerous if you don’t know how to use them correctly. There is no such a fear with Rosebud sounds, so they make a great toy for beginners.

The tip of a Rosebud sound resembles a bullet vibrator or a bead on anal beads. It also makes the whole sound look like various anal insertibles with a bulbous head, such as Beaded Handle with Stick, Pleasure Pod Probe and Lollipop Insertable, only thinner and designed for urethral use. This special, bulbous tip is made for sensitive yet intense massage of the most pleasurable spots, so it makes Rosebud sounds very arousing. The tip can be used for targeted stimulation of sensitive urethral spots or it can simply provide additional stimulation to the urethral walls during use.

The Rosebud sounds also have a relatively long handle that is a bit thicker than the body of the sound. It makes them easy to hold and manipulate during use. The handle makes the experience even more comfortable and painless, so it’s yet another reason why Rosebud sounds are great for beginners.

Since they are straight, Rosebud sounds can be inserted and removed even while the penis is erect. It gives you some flexibility, because you can choose to insert and remove them both when you are flaccid and erect without no problems.

Rosebud sounds come in many different lengths, diameters and size of the bulbous tip. It means there are Rosebud sounds for users of all experience levels. These sounds typically come in kits, so you can choose the one that suits you best.

When to Use Rosebud Sounds?

Rosebud sounds are great for beginners who wish to try longer toys for the first time. As such, it is ideal for those transitioning from penis plugs to more demanding toys. Also, Rosebud sounds are great for those who wish to try deeper stimulation without compromising comfort.

That being said, Rosebud sounds cannot be used for true deep stimulation. While longer than typical penis plugs and shortest urethral sounds, Rosebud sounds are not long enough to reach prostate or bladder. Therefore, they are generally not suitable for deep urethral stimulation, particularly if it includes prostate massage or bladder massage.

As such, Rosebud sounds might not be intense enough for experienced and the most demanding users, particularly those who wish to experiment with truly deep urethral stimulation.

However, Rosebud sounds are designed for pleasure, so even experienced users enjoy them to the fullest. The bullet-shaped end makes for a very intense yet comfortable experience that both beginners and more demanding users can like.

“In and Out” Sounding: How To

SoundingOne of the most exciting things about urethral stimulation is that you can play with your toys in many different ways. It all depends on your preferences and experience level, but there are definitely various things you can try.

For many people, one of the most exciting things about urethral stimulation is to use the toy to simulate penetrative sex. In other words, to penetrate your penis with a toy. Typically, it is done using in and out movements, in which the sound or a penis plug is moved in and out of the penis. Basically, it means “fucking” yourself (or your partner!) with a urethral toy. While not all people enjoy this activity, many claim this is the best and most arousing part of urethral stimulation.

“In and Out” Sounding Tips

If you wish to try in and out sounding, good news: there is actually nothing preventing you to try. There are not many rules and guidelines for this form of a play, though as with any other form of urethral stimulation, it is vital to stay safe and know how to proceed. For this reason, inexperienced users are advised to try this form of stimulation with an experienced partner who will sound them. If you wish to try this activity on your own, the most important thing is to go slowly and gently! This is an absolute must to keep yourself safe and without injuries to your urethra.

Here are some tips on safe in and out sounding:

Insert the toy carefully. The toy has to be inserted with care. Do not rush things out.

Use plenty of lube. In and out sounding makes a lot of friction, so to prevent injuries to your urethra, make sure to use plenty of lube. Lube the toy and your penis before you start. If it ever becomes a bit too rough, make sure to re-lube before continuing.

Go gently. It is an imperative to go slowly and gently. While it might be difficult to maintain the slow rhythm as you get aroused, it is vital to stay safe. Do not go too rough!

Go only an inch or two. One important thing to know about in and out sounding: the stroking motions should be short. You should move the toy out only for an inch or two! Use short strokes and do not move the toy more than an inch or two up and down! This is important to maintain safety.

Do not go too deep. In and out stimulation is ideal for shorter urethral toys, such as ribbed and textured penis plugs and short sounds. It is generally not made for deep stimulation, so make sure not to insert the toys too deeply into your urethra.

You may need to downsize, but be careful. This is a tricky one. Generally speaking, toys that are too thin are reserved for experienced users only, since they are sharper and more dangerous. On the other hand, in and out sounding generally feels better with a toy that is one size (but not more!) smaller than your usual size. It will make the toy glide with ease. That being said, it is dangerous to use toys that are too thin, so if you are only starting out (and using toys one size bigger than the smaller one or two sizes bigger than the smallest one), using a thinner toy for in and out sounding may be too dangerous. This is why beginner users are absolutely encouraged to either stretch their urethra first or not to try in and out sounding at all. You may try with your usual toy diameter and see how it goes. If it’s too tight for in and out sounding it’s better to wait until you are more experienced or until your urethra is properly stretched. Do not use super-thin toys for this purpose! Again, those are reserved for experienced users.

Use appropriate toys. Always use only toys specially designed for urethral stimulation. If you wish to try in and out massage, it’s best to use short, textured toys made for the purpose. These toys with bumps and textured exterior will provide additional stimulation during use and will enhance the in and out motions. Recommended products:

Additional Tips

  • While the article is focused on penis and male users, it’s important to know that women can enjoy this type of urethral massage, too. All you need to do is to choose a smaller toy than the one appropriate for penis sounding. Use plenty of lube and try gentle in and out movements to see how they feel. However, keep in mind not to go too deeply. If you feel any pain or if your urethral toy reaches the end of urethra, you should stop and wait until your body recovers. Next time, try using shorter movements.
  • That being said, there are some women who enjoy bladder teasing (just like there are men who like the same thing). If you wish to do this keep in mind that this activity is more dangerous so you need to be as gentle as possible. Women have a much shorter urethra, which makes for a greater risk to develop urinary tract infections. As usual with these types of extreme sexual activities, it’s best to consult a doctor before doing anything!
  • Keep in mind that in and out movements will probably irritate your urethral walls, even if you use plenty of lube (and you should always use lube!) Expect some burning during urination. Some people also experience a bit of pain, but it doesn’t last long. If the pain and burning sensation persist for hours or into following days make sure to consult your doctor.
  • If you experience pain (particularly sharp pain), significant discomfort, discharge, blood, cramps or any other problem, it is important to seek medical attention immediately! To stay safe, it is best to find a kink-friendly doctor beforehand. Ask for their opinion and advice how to stay safe during sounding and make sure to contact them if you encounter any sort of a problem!

How to Choose Penis Plugs – Experience and Desired Effect

509tPenis plugs are among the most popular urethral toys, and for a reason. They are great way for beginner users to get familiar with the feeling of urethral stimulation and to test their boundaries: is this for me? How does it feel? Another good thing about penis plugs is that they allow you to train and stretch your urethra, which is a very much needed process if you wish to fully enjoy urethral stimulation.

That being said, penis plugs are much more than just a training device. There are so many different designs, shapes and sizes of penis plugs so they can be used for many different things and sensations. In a way, penis plugs are more versatile and multi-functional than urethral sounds, because they can be used for several different things.

Your choice of a penis plug will largely depend on two things: your experience level and the desired effect.

Experience Level

Generally speaking, there are three types of users: beginners, intermediate and experienced. There are no clear-cut boundaries between these categories and these will largely depend on your individual experience. In other words, only you can tell when you are ready to move to the next level, so to speak.

That being said, beginner users are not difficult to recognize: those are people with little or no experience with urethral stimulation. These people also have an untrained (unstreched) urethra, so stretching and training might be the first step to do. Penis plugs ideal for these people are typically shorter and thinner in size (though not way too thin) and very smooth. This is made to ensure good comfort and easy insertion.

Intermediate users are those with some experience with urethral stimulation. These users can move on to bigger and more complex penis plugs, such as those with bumps and other additions.

Experienced users are those with a stretched urethra, who know how to use urethral toys without a problem and with a lot of experience with numerous toys. These people should not have a problem using any type of a penis plug.

Of course, these categories can be defined in different ways, but it’s important to understand that some things do depend on your experience. If you are a newbie, you should stick to the penis plugs suitable for beginners. Do not jump straight into more complex and intense toys. Take some time to stretch your urethra properly and get used to the feeling.

Desired Effect

The desired effect basically means what you wish to achieve with your penis plug and how you want to use it. For example, some men want to use their penis plug during intercourse or masturbation, for maximizing the experience. Others wish to wear their penis plug daily and for long periods of time. Some men want to use them for BDSM and painful pleasures.

With so many different designs, it’s important to know which plug is good for the intended purpose. In order to fully enjoy your penis plug, you need to choose the right one for the job.

Generally speaking, most penis plugs can be used for many different things, but some are specially designed for specific sensations and acts:

  • Sperm stoppers. These penis plugs are specially made to prevent the semen to be expelled from the body. Most of them are short so they are relatively comfortable. Some have a special ball on the end to keep the fluids inside, while the others are regular penis plugs, only solid and without a hole for fluids to go through.
  • Hollow penis plugs. These plugs have a “cum thru” hole, which means you can urinate and ejaculate with the plug on. These plugs are ideal for long-term wear since you don’t have to take them off to do basic functions like urinating. They are also typically made to be smooth and comfortable, so they are truly great if you wish to wear your penis plug for hours (or days!)
  • Ribbed penis plugs. Penis plugs that are heavily textured, with ribs, bumps and other additions are made to provide additional stimulation during use. They are great for enhancing the pleasure, particularly during masturbation. The best effect is typically gained by moving the plug in and out a couple of inches, which makes the bumps massage urethral walls in an arousing, pleasurable way.
  • Long penis plugs. These penis plugs are intended for deeper urethral stimulation, even though most of them are still shorter than urethral sounds. In other words, if you want to go truly deep, you will need to use a sound designed for deep urethral stimulation. But these penis plugs still can go deep enough to be satisfying, so it’s worth having at least one in your collection.
  • Torture plugs. These are extreme penis plugs made for intense sensations or even pain. They are typically made as part of a larger device made for the entire genital area. Sometimes they are part of a cock lock system while in others they come with spiked glans rings and other extreme additions.

How to Reach Prostate for Stimulation?

P Spot StimulatorProstate stimulation is very arousing and rewarding. A bad thing is that prostate gland is not easy to reach, since it’s located inside the body. However, there are some very easy ways to reach your prostate or to have your partner do it for you. All you need to know where to touch!

Here, we will describe two main ways to reach prostate for stimulation. They are very different and they require different level of skills and equipment, but both can be used for that mind-blowing prostate massage.

Anatomy

In order to enjoy effective prostate stimulation you need to know your anatomy. This is the only way to know how to approach your body and how to get that targeted and proper P-spot massage. The good news is that prostate can be stimulated in many different ways so you have many options!

The prostate is located below the bladder and it makes an integral part of human urethral system. It is about of a size of a walnut and it’s positioned in front of the rectum, which means it can be felt during anal penetration.

The urethra passes from the bladder, through the prostate and all the way to the penis. This is how the urine flows from the bladder and out of the body. Prostate plays an important reproductive role: it secrets a fluid needed for nourishing sperm. The part of urethra inside of prostate is merged with two ejaculatory ducts coming from testicles via vas deferens. Sperm comes from testicles and is mixed with seminal fluid to form semen. About 10 to 30 percent of seminal fluid is produced by the prostate itself. During ejaculation, prostate muscles contract and pass semen to the penis, where penile muscles expel semen out of the body.

The main things to remember from the anatomy lesson is that, while prostate plays a reproductive role and is connected to testicles, it is much easier to reach in ways that do NOT include testicles: through urethra and anus. It’s all due to the position of the urethra within the body.

Massaging prostate can be very pleasurable and arousing. Some people compare it to stimulation of a female G-spot. The exact feeling and intensity of experience vary from men to men but it is true that P-spot massage can greatly benefit your sex life and orgasms. Perhaps the best thing about prostate stimulation is a special kind of orgasm, the one that does not require any form of genital stimulation. While this requires some practice it sure pays off a big time!

How to Reach Urethra?

The location of urethra is very important for P-spot stimulation, because you need to know where it’s positioned in order to know how to massage it. As you can see from the above explanation, prostate is located deep within the body so it’s not always easy to reach directly (though it’s possible!) Luckily, its relative position to the rectum makes things easier!

There are two main ways to stimulate prostate:

  • Indirectly: Through the anus. Anal stimulation can be used to massage prostate through the anus. This sort of massage doesn’t touch prostate directly but it’s still very effective since anal walls are relatively thin and prostate is positioned very close to the rectum. This is also the easiest way to reach your prostate gland for stimulation.
  • Directly: Through the urethra. Prostate can be reached directly, all the way down the urethral canal. Since urethra passes through the penis and then prostate, if you perform deep urethral stimulation and if you insert your urethral toy deep enough, you can reach prostate. (You can go one step further and stimulate your bladder, too). This is a more difficult way to proceed because it requires special toys and some skill and experience, but it’s possible to reach prostate directly.

There are also some other ways to stimulate your prostate. For some men, even perineum massage (between testicles and anus) can be beneficial, especial if a vibrating toy is used. The vibrating waves go beneath the skin to reach prostate.

Men who do not want to go too deep into urethra to reach prostate can still enjoy a bit of that special feeling but just using a shorter urethral toy. Some sounds and plugs, especially vibrating ones, will send the waves of pleasure to your prostate.

Keep in mind: “indirect” here means anything where the device made for stimulation does not touch the prostate directly. Many people, however, count anal stimulation as direct because you do reach prostate to massage it, even though there is your anal wall between the prostate and the toy, and even though you do not actually go inside the prostate. In these cases, only external stimulation (such as stimulation of the perineum) counts as “indirect”.

However, there is a reason why only urethral stimulation is direct – it not only makes a direct contact between the device and urethra (and thus, provides a different sort of sensation) but also allows the user to actually go inside the prostate (and further, to the bladder), which also provides many different and intense sensations, most of which cannot be achieved in any other way.

Different Types of Massages

Since the two main ways to reach prostate (through anus and through urethra) are very different, they require a very different set of skills. Anal massage is definitely an easier choice, since it doesn’t require much of training. It doesn’t even require special devices: all you need is your finger!

The prostate can be felt as a walnut-sized gland about a finger deep into anus. You will need to bend your finger slightly to reach prostate. Not even first timers should have any problems finding the gland through the anal wall. You will need a bit of practice to make it pleasurable and to find your “sweet spot”, but it’s a fun exploration!

Of course, this is just basic prostate stimulation. It feels even better with an anal toy, especially a vibrating one. There are also specialized anal toys, prostate stimulators, made just for the job! These P-spot massagers are designed to stimulate your prostate and make you moan in pleasure.

All beginners who wish to try prostate stimulation are advised to try the anal route or other forms of indirect stimulation (such as perineum massage). Urethral stimulation of the prostate is reserved for more experienced users and requires a good knowledge of urethral stimulation and urethral sounding. However, once you are experienced enough and well-versed in urethral sounding you can try deep stimulation to massage your prostate and experience pleasure in a completely new way.

Female Urethral Toys

Female Urethral Toys 1kitty kat: I’m having a hard time finding FEMALE sounding and catheter play equipment. Please send me links.

Female urethral stimulation may not be as popular or well-known as male urethral stimulation, but it exists. It exists and it’s as pleasurable and exciting as male urethral stimulation! All ladies who feel intrigued by this type of sexual pleasure can enjoy it to the fullest.

Unfortunately, there is not enough information about female urethral stimulation. Most of the articles and product recommendations are focused on men. This may leave many women confused about the subject. Some women may think that female urethral stimulation is impossible to achieve, while others struggle to find appropriate toys to fulfill their desire.

Here, we will outline some of the basic toys women can use to try urethral stimulation to the fullest. We will also mention some important rules one has to follow in order to preserve safety and full satisfaction.

Overview of Female Urethral Toys

Some women will find that they can use male urethral toys or universal urethral toys without a problem. In fact, most urethral toys are not labeled by gender, which means that they are not specifically made for men or women. In so many ways, this makes sense – a urethral toy is a urethral toy and in theory, it can be used by both men and women.

That being said, since female urethra is much shorter and somewhat tighter than male urethra, most women will need smaller and thinner urethral toys than those used by men.

You may think that starting with smallest toys is the only way to go. However, it’s important to know that longer toys are not necessarily bad for female urethral stimulation, as long as you don’t try to shove them too deeply into urethra. Typically, men use penis plugs for cock stuffing and sounds for deeper urethral stimulation, but many women find sounds to be more comfortable than penis plugs. This is because penis plugs are specially designed for penis use, while sounds are general urethral toys.

Therefore, the ideal female urethral toys will be shorter and thinner sounds, as well as smaller trainer toys (used for urethral stretching and training). When choosing a urethral toy for a woman, make sure it’s thin enough to accommodate the woman’s body.

Some recommended models and types of urethral toys suitable for women:

Full-Size Urethral Sounds:

  • Hank Sounds

    . These urethral sounds are among the shorter variants. They are typically made for urethral stretching so they come in smaller sizes and are suitable for beginners. They typically have a ridge at one point so you can use it as a stop marker to prevent you to go too deep. If you wish to try urethral sounding, it’s best to start with these.

  • Hegar Sounds

    . Hegar Sounds are among the safest urethral sounds on the market. Do not be intimidated by their length – they are among the most comfortable urethral toys. Just make sure not to go too deep. Depending on the size, these may be reserved for more experienced users.

  • Pratt Sounds

    . These sounds are a bit longer but are thin enough for women to use. If you want to go with Pratt Sounds, it’s best to choose Beginner’s Pratt Sounds since they are very thin. As with any other sound type, make sure not to go too deep. Depending on the size, these may be reserved for more experienced users.

Princess Albertina Piercing for Stimulating Urethra

Another interesting way to stimulate female urethra without toys is Princess Albertina piercing. This is a female genital piercing equivalent to male Prince Albert piercing. Princess Albertina passes through urethra and exits on the top of the vagina.

This piercing massages many sensitive spots inside urethra, so it can be very arousing. With Princess Albertina, you may be able to reach your urethra for stimulation just by rubbing your clitoris or by gently tugging on the jewelry.

In order to accommodate this piercing, a woman has to have large and wide enough urethra, so it’s ideal for those who have some experience with urethral stimulation.

Princess Albertina piercing can be very arousing but keep in mind that it increases the risk for urinary tract infections. It is therefore vital to consult a reliable piercer who is experienced at performing this type of piercings. You should also prepare for the possibility that the piercing might not work for you. However, if done correctly, it can help women stimulate their urethra.

How to Approach Urethral Stimulation

  • Once a woman is sexually aroused, the urethra enlarges and it’s easier to access it. This is why all women who wish to try urethral stimulation should strive to be aroused first. Once you are used to the feeling of urethral stimulation you can start from scratch, so to speak (begin a session with urethral stimulation without being previously aroused), but for beginners, the best and most comfortable way is to be aroused first. You can masturbate, have an intercourse or try some toys, but do not reach the orgasm. You need to be aroused and ready.
  • The urethral opening may seem very tiny, but it’s actually larger than it looks. It can definitely accommodate urethral toys, but they need to be properly lubed and you will need to train your urethra gradually. Do not expect great results from the first try (even though they can happen!) Start by simply inserting the tip of a toy to see how it feels. Later, go inch by inch by gently stretching your urethra. Make sure to use plenty of lube!
  • Many women claim that their most intense orgasms are during urethral stimulation and simultaneous clitoral stimulation. This is also the easiest way to ease yourself into urethral stimulation so make sure to always massage your clitoris during urethral play.
  • Urethral stimulation is fun but it carries a risk of urinary infections. To prevent this, you must always use only sterile toys. It is therefore best to use Surgical Steel urethral toys, since they can be properly sterilized. Make sure to take your time to sterilize your toys before each session! Also, after urethral play, don’t forget to clean your toys.
  • Everything used for urethral play: toys, lube, fingers, etc. has to be clean. Make sure to take precautions to stay safe.
  • Always, always use only toys specially designed for urethral use. This is the only way to go. Never attempt to insert any random object into your urethra. The toys are made to be used in this way and they accommodate the body perfectly. To stay safe and to prevent any potential injuries and other problems, use only special urethral toys.

Urethral Toys: How to Accommodate Your Body?

252tBefore you start experimenting with urethral stimulation and urethral toys, it is vital that you get to know your body. Urethral stimulation is fun and arousing, but it’s important to be informed about the anatomy and potential dangers. Most of the problems that may arise from urethral stimulation come from not understanding urethral anatomy. For this reason, it’s important that you know at least basics so you can practice urethral stimulation in a safe and exciting way.

Note: these tips mostly concern male urethral stimulation, since this is the most popular form of urethral stimulation. However, men are not the only ones who can enjoy this type of stimulation. Female urethral stimulation is a thing, too. However, female anatomy is different than male, so these tips may not always work for women. If you are a woman wanting to try urethral stimulation you need to get to know female anatomy better in order to practice this type of stimulation in a safe way.

Urethral Anatomy

There are a few basic things you need to know about male urethral anatomy in order to practice urethral stimulation in a safe way. While you don’t need to be an expert, it is important to know a few basic things about the shape of the urethra and its functions.

Urethra starts at the bladder and then curves around the prostate gland. From the prostate, it goes all the way through the penis to the urethral opening on the tip of the penis. Unlike female urethra, which is a few inches long, male urethra is much longer, over 11 inches in average.

The bladder has a sphincter muscle that keeps the bladder shut so the urine wouldn’t spill. It opens during urination and then it closes again. This sphincter muscle is possible to be opened using urethral toys during deep urethral sounding, but this is more complex and reserved for those who are experienced in urethral stimulation. Definitely not recommended for beginners!

Urethral canal actually has two purposes: to transfer urine from the bladder to the outside of the body and to transfer sperm from testicles to outside of the body. Both body fluids exit through the hole on the tip of the penis (pee hole). The way muscles and anatomy works, these two cannot be opened at the same time so urine and sperm do not mix. This is another important thing to know.

The male urethra is very stretchable because it has to account for erections. It has the ability to stretch itself very quickly, within minutes. However, this stretching goes only for the length: in order to practice urethral stimulation you will need to stretch your urethra in diameter in order to be able to accommodate urethral toys of various sizes.

As you can see from this description, urethra is not a straight canal. This is why inserting toys into your penis should be done carefully and without force. Urethra has its natural curves and some toys are specially designed to accommodate those curves. This particularly goes for the so-called “deep urethral stimulation”. However, this is an advanced toy play and it’s not recommended to beginners.

How to Accommodate Your Body?

In order to be able to accommodate your body and insert urethral toys properly, you need to keep the above information in mind. It’s vital to understand the anatomy. The most important things you need to remember before you try to insert a toy into your urethra are:

  • Urethra is not a straight canal. It has its curves.
  • Urethra is very tight and narrow until it’s “trained” and stretched to accommodate toys.
  • Deep urethral sounding can reach bladder and prostate for some additional stimulation but this is reserved for advanced users – do not try deep urethral stimulation if you are a beginner!
  • Everyone is different. You need to get to know your body in order to enjoy urethral stimulation to the fullest.

So, the best advice on how to accommodate your body is to get to know your own urethral anatomy. Learn how your urethra goes, where its curves are and what kind of stimulation feels pleasurable. All of this can be achieved through training and slow stretching of your urethra.

Here are some additional things to keep in mind when it comes to your body and how to make it accommodate urethral toys without a problem:

  • There are certain advantages to a long urethra. The first one is a reduced risk to urinary infections. Since urethra is so long, it takes bacteria much longer to reach the bladder to cause problems. It is also easier to wash them out through urinating. This is why men are less prone to urinary infections than women.
  • However, once you start with urethral stimulation certain warnings need to be in place because inserting objects deep into urethra opens a possibility of transferring bacteria and dirt deep into urethra and close to the bladder. So it opens opportunities for urinary tract infections. This is why it’s important that all toys you insert into urethra are properly cleaned and sterilized. This is the only way to prevent urinary infections.
  • Urethral toys should never be pushed or forced down the urethra. This is very risky and can lead to numerous problems. During training sessions, try to stretch your urethra slowly and go inch by inch. Don’t forget to use plenty of lube to make the experience smoother and pain-free.
  • As you go, try to remember how your urethra behaves, where it curves and what is the easiest way to make it accommodate toys. In time, this will become natural for you, but it’s important to be very careful in the beginning.
  • While you may want to try deep urethral sounding straight away, it is advisable to try urethral stretching and basic stimulation before you insert long sounds made for deep urethral stimulation. Do not try bladder and prostate stimulation straight away – those are reserved for more advanced users.
  • If you wish to train with a partner, make sure they know your individual anatomy and how your urethra behaves. It is easier to learn by inserting toys by yourself, but if you really want to try with a partner, make sure they are careful and gentle. Ideally, the will be familiar with urethral anatomy so they will know how to approach urethral training. Never allow anyone to insert toys into your urethra unless they are familiar with urethral sounding urethral anatomy.

Difference between Penis Plugs and Urethral Sounds

plugsUrethral sounds and penis plugs are the most popular urethral toys in the world.

If you are interested in urethral play and stimulation, it’s vital to know the difference between the most popular urethral devices and how to use them properly.

This is the only way to achieve satisfaction.

Before You Start

A special caution must be taken by those who wish to try urethral stimulation for the first time. Keep in mind, some urethral toys are made especially for the more advanced users and you should not use them unless your urethra is stretched properly and unless you are familiar with more basic forms of urethral stimulation.

It’s always best to start with smaller toys and build your way up from there. If you can’t find specializes stretcher and trainer toys, start with the smallest, smoothest urethral toy you can find.

Also, one important thing to keep in mind at all times: use only toys specially designed for this type of stimulation. While it may seem tempting to try different things, do not ever shove a random object down your penis. Always stick to proper urethral devices only.

Penis Plugs and Urethral Sounds: The Difference

Both penis plugs and urethral sounds are toys designed for urethral stimulation. In some ways, they achieve the same purpose and are used in a similar way. Both are designed to be used for urethral penetration, that is, they are inserted into the urethral opening. Most of these toys are designed for men, but some women can use them as well. If you are a woman who wishes to use urethral toys it’s best to stick to smaller toys.

Most users of urethral toys are men, which means most of the popular types of toys are made with men in mind. Both penis plugs and urethral sounds are inserted into the urethra and can be used to stimulate penis on the inside.

So, what’s the difference? The main difference is the shape and length, though there are some variations. Typically speaking, urethral sounds are longer and they are made for deep urethral exploration. This is why they are recommended for more experienced users who are already familiar with urethral stimulation.

Penis plugs, on the other hand, tend to be shorter. They are great for beginners who wish to try this type of stimulation for the first time. On the other hand, there are more extreme penis plugs out there, made with experienced users in mind, so they are definitely not a beginner’s toy only.

Another difference to keep in mind is the purpose. Urethral Sounds are actually medical instruments used by real doctors. This is why they are known as medical toys, though they are not used for medical play only. That being said, urethral sounds used as sex toys are still shaped in the same (or very similar) way as the medical toys used in hospitals. Some of them are long enough to reach all the way down to the prostate and bladder. In these cases, a special care must be taken not to damage these organs, though it’s also possible to use urethral sounds for prostate stimulation.

Penis plugs, on the other hand, are sex toys only. They are usually not as long to reach that deep into urethra. They also come in many different shapes and textures. They are made for penis stimulation and they can accompany different beads and other curves made for enhancing the effect. Some penis plugs also come with a glans ring. The ring is there to perform a dual function: it keeps the plug safely inside urethra and it also provides additional stimulation during use.

The main differences between urethral sounds and penis plugs:

  • Penis Plugs: shorter, made in numerous designs (straight, wavy, bumpy, etc.), made for penis stimulation but usually not long enough for prostate stimulation, often include glans rings for added stimulation and to keep the plug in place.
  • Urethral Sounds: longer, straight or slightly curved, used as medical devices (and for medical play), made for deep urethral stimulation. They come in several standard types: Hegar, Van Buren, Pratt, and more.

Train Your Body for Urethral Stimulation

329tYou may be surprised to learn that urethral toys are relatively simple to use – but you need to know how to go about it. It definitely requires some practice, but the technique is usually not the problem. What beginners fail to understand is that urethral play is a somewhat acquired taste. You may like it right from the start, but it takes some practice to truly enjoy it.

What does it mean? Generally speaking, you will need to prepare your body for this type of stimulation.

Preparing Your Body

If you’ve never had anything inside your urethra, or if you’re only starting out with your experimentation, chances are that you will find urethral play “strange”. Pleasurable and intriguing, yes, but also unusual. This is where “preparing your body” comes in.

The preparation includes several things, and they are broadly divided into two major actions: training your urethra and getting used to the sensation. These actions should not be understood as “phases”, since they overlap. As you train your urethra, you are making your body used to the sensation. It goes hand in hand. However, these two things are not the same, so it’s important to understand both if you wish to enjoy urethral stimulation to the fullest.

Training and Stretching

The first important step toward enjoying urethral stimulation is to train your urethra. What does it mean? It means that your urethra has to be stretched enough to accommodate toys you wish to insert. Most men have tight urethral canals – however, urethra can be stretched relatively easily. That is, if you go slowly and with care. Some men find it easy to stretch their urethra a little without any toys, just by gentle inserting of a pinky finger after a shower. This is also how many men discover they find this type of stimulation arousing.

While this type of experimentation is not problematic on its own, it’s important to keep in mind that you will need special toys to fully stretch your urethra. Also, forcing a finger down your penis is not the safest way to go, though it’s definitely not the most dangerous, either. Fingers are short, however, and they cannot train urethra properly. To really stretch your urethra you will need to use a special training toy. These urethral toys are small, smooth and specially designed to stretch your urethra so it can accommodate larger toys.

There are penis plug stretchers ideal for beginners who wish to try this type of stimulation for the first time. There are also urethral sounds made for stretching, but this is usually a more advanced step, once you wish to move from basic urethral stimulation to deep urethral stimulation. You may also opt to use special stretcher toys made for this purpose.

Whatever you do, keep in mind that stretching is not an optional step – it is a must. You need to go through this and you need to go slowly. This is the only way to enjoy urethral stimulation in a safe and secure way. Luckily, stretching is pleasurable and it goes hand in hand with experimenting and arousal, so you should not have a problem with it. Keep in mind, however: patience is the key. Never force anything down your penis if you feel resistance, pain or discomfort.

Getting Used to the Feeling

Another thing you need to achieve before you enjoy urethral stimulation to the fullest is to get used to the feeling. You are obviously intrigued and attracted to this type of stimulation if you wish to explore it further, so it’s a good first step.

Keep in mind, however, that once you start experimenting with trainer toys and stretchers, you will encounter true urethral stimulation. The sensation it gives may seem “strange” at first, maybe even unpleasant. While you should never force a toy if it causes discomfort or pain, you need to learn how to differentiate between these bad feelings from a regular sensation given by urethral stimulation. Some of it will be very pleasurable right from the start, while others will require some adjustment. Just keep going if this is something that arouses you and you will get used to the feeling so much you will start craving for more.

Words of Warning

Finally, a few words of warning. Urethral stimulation is fun and rewarding, but it should be approached with care and consideration. You need patience for this. This is not something you can do with force, and it’s not something you can do without preparation. Keep this in mind before you attempt any form of urethral play.

Some specific things to keep in mind:

  • Use specialized toys. Never, ever use random objects for urethral play. It may seem easier to grab the first thing you can fit inside your penis, but it’s a bad way to go. Random household objects or even toys not specially made for urethral play are a bad choice. You need a specialized toy that is made with urethral play in mind. These toys are designed to be used safely and they will not damage your urethra or cause other problems. In order to stay safe, stick to these toys.
  • Use beginner toys. There are many different urethral toys on the market. Some of them are made for medical play and fetish enthusiast, but others can be used in many different settings. What you need to pay attention to, however, is the size and design of a toy. If you are beginner, stay away from big, thick urethral toys. Opt for special beginner or trainer toys at first. Remember, the goal is to train and stretch your urethra before you can move on to the larger things! Never skip this step – this is crucial to ensure your satisfaction.
  • Penis plugs or urethral sounds? Generally, it all depends on your preferences and the type of sensation you wish to experience. That being said, urethral sounds tend to be bigger and longer than penis plugs. They are made for deep urethral penetration. It’s therefore best to start with small penis plugs and build your way from there. However, there are also special beginner urethral sounds you may want to try, though they are recommended for those who are already familiar with urethral stimulation (at least a little) and who already have their urethra trained at least a bit.
  • Be patient. As usual, it’s important to listen to your body and go slowly. Also, don’t forget lube – urethral stimulation requires a lot of lube. It is vital to make the experience as comfortable and smooth as possible. This is the only way to ensure a pleasurable urethral stimulation.

Female Urethral Stimulation

Female Urethral StimulationUrethral stimulation and urethral play are very popular among people who wish to expand their sexual pleasure and to experience some unique sensations.

It’s not surprising that urethral sounds and plugs are so popular.

While urethral stimulation is typically considered a male domain (since male urethra is larger and longer), it’s important to know that women too can enjoy this type of sexual stimulation.

The Excitement of Urethral Stimulation

Generally speaking, urethral stimulation works very similar to both men and women. They are both based on the fact that inserting objects into urethra produces a very specific sensation, which many people find exciting and pleasurable. Even more, urethral stimulation massages some of the most sensitive spots in the body, but from a different place than usual, which can produce very arousing effect.

It’s therefore not surprising that many people like to try urethral stimulation. It’s usually believed that these people are men. There is some logic to it. Male urethra is naturally larger and longer, so it’s not so surprising that it can accommodate a penis plug or a urethral sound.

Female urethra, on the other hand, is much shorter and smaller in every sense of the word. Does that mean women cannot enjoy urethral stimulation?

Urethral Stimulation for Women

Luckily, the answer to the above question is: “no”. It does not mean that women cannot experience urethral stimulation. In fact, there are many women who do. There are many women who can, and do, enjoy urethral sounding or other forms of urethral play.

And it’s pleasurable! While urethral stimulation in men can lead to prostate stimulation, in women it can lead to clitoral stimulation. Remember, clitoris is much more than what’s seen outside the body. By inserting plugs and sounds into urethra, a woman can stimulate her clitoris from yet another point and experience new heights of sexual pleasure.

That being said, there are some differences between male and female urethral stimulation that have to be taken into account. They mainly come from the fact that female urethra is smaller and shorter. It means there is a greater risk of urinary tract infections and injuries if sounding is not done carefully and gently.

Woman’s smaller urethra also means prolonged training and urethral stretching. As you probably know, urethra has to be stretched gradually in order to be able to receive plugs and sounds. This is why it’s vital to start small and work your way up from there.

Female Urethral Toys

Since female urethra is small and short, it’s highly recommended to start with the smallest toys available. Try a specialized female urethral plug or a very small, beginner’s urethral penis plug or a small sound. The goal is to start training and stretching your urethra. At the same time, you should start to familiarize yourself with the feeling.

Try it slowly to see if this type of stimulation is arousing and pleasurable to you. It’s vital to go slowly and gradually. In case you decide urethral stimulation is something you enjoy, you can try with a bit bigger urethral toys.

Keep in mind: while female urethra is generally smaller, it can be stretched enough to receive regular plugs and sounds. You probably won’t be able to go as deep as men can (nor would that be safe), but you will be able to insert regular urethral toys once you have your urethra properly stretched and trained. All you need is patience and quality urethral toys specially designed for this use. Never try to insert anything that is not specifically made to be used as a urethral toy! Think about your safety so you can enjoy urethral stimulation without a problem and to a full satisfaction.