How to Reach Prostate for Stimulation?

P Spot StimulatorProstate stimulation is very arousing and rewarding. A bad thing is that prostate gland is not easy to reach, since it’s located inside the body. However, there are some very easy ways to reach your prostate or to have your partner do it for you. All you need to know where to touch!

Here, we will describe two main ways to reach prostate for stimulation. They are very different and they require different level of skills and equipment, but both can be used for that mind-blowing prostate massage.

Anatomy

In order to enjoy effective prostate stimulation you need to know your anatomy. This is the only way to know how to approach your body and how to get that targeted and proper P-spot massage. The good news is that prostate can be stimulated in many different ways so you have many options!

The prostate is located below the bladder and it makes an integral part of human urethral system. It is about of a size of a walnut and it’s positioned in front of the rectum, which means it can be felt during anal penetration.

The urethra passes from the bladder, through the prostate and all the way to the penis. This is how the urine flows from the bladder and out of the body. Prostate plays an important reproductive role: it secrets a fluid needed for nourishing sperm. The part of urethra inside of prostate is merged with two ejaculatory ducts coming from testicles via vas deferens. Sperm comes from testicles and is mixed with seminal fluid to form semen. About 10 to 30 percent of seminal fluid is produced by the prostate itself. During ejaculation, prostate muscles contract and pass semen to the penis, where penile muscles expel semen out of the body.

The main things to remember from the anatomy lesson is that, while prostate plays a reproductive role and is connected to testicles, it is much easier to reach in ways that do NOT include testicles: through urethra and anus. It’s all due to the position of the urethra within the body.

Massaging prostate can be very pleasurable and arousing. Some people compare it to stimulation of a female G-spot. The exact feeling and intensity of experience vary from men to men but it is true that P-spot massage can greatly benefit your sex life and orgasms. Perhaps the best thing about prostate stimulation is a special kind of orgasm, the one that does not require any form of genital stimulation. While this requires some practice it sure pays off a big time!

How to Reach Urethra?

The location of urethra is very important for P-spot stimulation, because you need to know where it’s positioned in order to know how to massage it. As you can see from the above explanation, prostate is located deep within the body so it’s not always easy to reach directly (though it’s possible!) Luckily, its relative position to the rectum makes things easier!

There are two main ways to stimulate prostate:

  • Indirectly: Through the anus. Anal stimulation can be used to massage prostate through the anus. This sort of massage doesn’t touch prostate directly but it’s still very effective since anal walls are relatively thin and prostate is positioned very close to the rectum. This is also the easiest way to reach your prostate gland for stimulation.
  • Directly: Through the urethra. Prostate can be reached directly, all the way down the urethral canal. Since urethra passes through the penis and then prostate, if you perform deep urethral stimulation and if you insert your urethral toy deep enough, you can reach prostate. (You can go one step further and stimulate your bladder, too). This is a more difficult way to proceed because it requires special toys and some skill and experience, but it’s possible to reach prostate directly.

There are also some other ways to stimulate your prostate. For some men, even perineum massage (between testicles and anus) can be beneficial, especial if a vibrating toy is used. The vibrating waves go beneath the skin to reach prostate.

Men who do not want to go too deep into urethra to reach prostate can still enjoy a bit of that special feeling but just using a shorter urethral toy. Some sounds and plugs, especially vibrating ones, will send the waves of pleasure to your prostate.

Keep in mind: “indirect” here means anything where the device made for stimulation does not touch the prostate directly. Many people, however, count anal stimulation as direct because you do reach prostate to massage it, even though there is your anal wall between the prostate and the toy, and even though you do not actually go inside the prostate. In these cases, only external stimulation (such as stimulation of the perineum) counts as “indirect”.

However, there is a reason why only urethral stimulation is direct – it not only makes a direct contact between the device and urethra (and thus, provides a different sort of sensation) but also allows the user to actually go inside the prostate (and further, to the bladder), which also provides many different and intense sensations, most of which cannot be achieved in any other way.

Different Types of Massages

Since the two main ways to reach prostate (through anus and through urethra) are very different, they require a very different set of skills. Anal massage is definitely an easier choice, since it doesn’t require much of training. It doesn’t even require special devices: all you need is your finger!

The prostate can be felt as a walnut-sized gland about a finger deep into anus. You will need to bend your finger slightly to reach prostate. Not even first timers should have any problems finding the gland through the anal wall. You will need a bit of practice to make it pleasurable and to find your “sweet spot”, but it’s a fun exploration!

Of course, this is just basic prostate stimulation. It feels even better with an anal toy, especially a vibrating one. There are also specialized anal toys, prostate stimulators, made just for the job! These P-spot massagers are designed to stimulate your prostate and make you moan in pleasure.

All beginners who wish to try prostate stimulation are advised to try the anal route or other forms of indirect stimulation (such as perineum massage). Urethral stimulation of the prostate is reserved for more experienced users and requires a good knowledge of urethral stimulation and urethral sounding. However, once you are experienced enough and well-versed in urethral sounding you can try deep stimulation to massage your prostate and experience pleasure in a completely new way.

What is Prostate Milking?

Milking Stick

Milking Stick

Many people who are interested in prostate stimulation are also intrigued by prostate milking. If you wish to know more about prostate milking and its unique aspects you need to understand this practice in its unique context. Keep in mind that prostate milking includes prostate massage, but not all prostate stimulation is prostate milking in the strict sense of the word.

Prostate milking is a specific sexual activity, mainly done in fetish and BDSM communities to exercise power and control. It is also used by people who engage in male chastity. While you may not wish to use prostate milking in this sense, it is still important to understand what this practice is about.

Differences Between Milking and Massage

For some people, prostate milking is the same thing as prostate massage or prostate stimulation in general. Sometimes, these terms are understood as synonyms: prostate stimulation and prostate massage are often called “prostate milking”. In a way, this is understandable: prostate stimulation is not a common practice for everyone and some people might think that there is not much difference between different activities. Also, prostate orgasm can sure make the man ejaculate so it can be understood as “milking”. If you wish to understand prostate milking in this sense you may treat it as just a regular form of prostate stimulation.

However, it is important to know that prostate milking is a special practice often associated with various fetish and kink communities. In this sense, prostate milking is not simply any prostate massage, but the one done with a specific purpose of “draining” the prostate slowly and consistently and not as part of regular ejaculation.

In other words, prostate milking is used to “milk” the gland out of the precum and seminal fluid without bringing a man to orgasm or traditional ejaculation. The fluid milked goes slowly and in small amounts. This is very different than regular ejaculation and it brings very different physical and mental effects.

Physically, prostate milking does not produce traditional orgasms and therefore there is no usual sort of arousal and pleasure that can be experienced. The feeling itself is more of a teasing without actual satisfaction. This is why the main effect of prostate milking are psychological and used in fetish communities to achieve different goals. Brining your slave to the edge but never satisfying him. Milking a caged man so prostate is drained and thus kept healthy without allowing the man to achieve erection, orgasm and pleasure. Teasing your partner while he’s begging for release. Prostate milking can be used for many different things and it is a very powerful game between couples. It produced both practical results (the fluid being released) and powerful psychological effects.

In essence, milking is a targeted prostate stimulation done with the purpose of draining the prostate. The massage is done until cum is released, but without orgasm. If done correctly, the fluid can flow slowly and in small amounts.

Why Perform Prostate Milking?

Prostate milking can be done for various reasons, the main one being drainage. The man’s cum is simply drained instead of being ejaculated during orgasm. So, why do this?

Here are some common reasons:

  • A forced experience. Prostate milking drains the seminal fluid out of the body without orgasm. As such, it is a forced experience that does not bring pleasure to the man. In fact, it can often leave him frustrated and vulnerable. As such, this is a desirable scenario for specific BDSM activities and a good way to control the submissive partner.
  • Teasing and punishment. Prostate milking can be used for specific teasing and punishment purposes. While it is not particularly painful or uncomfortable it can be used to cause frustration for the submissive partner.
  • Prostate health. A man’s prostate has to be drained every ten days or so. If the man is not allowed to ejaculate, the accumulation of seminal fluid in the prostate is damaging. To prevent health problems and illnesses it is important to empty the prostate from time to time. Since men in some situations are not allowed to achieve arousal and orgasm (such as men practicing male chastity) prostate milking is necessary to allow the prostate to drain and to prevent health problems. If you engage in male chastity make sure to also perform milking at least once per week or ten days at most.

How to Perform Prostate Milking

Prostate milking requires some practice to get right. As with other forms of sexual stimulation, you need patience and enthusiasm. Since this is an activity for couples, both people need to be relaxed and ready to engage in this practice.

Prostate milking is best done by applying targeted yet subtle pressure onto prostate. Those who know prostate massage should not have a problem finding the sweet spot. However, it is important not to bring a man to full arousal and orgasm when doing the milking. Sometimes, this is the hardest part, especially for those who enjoy prostate stimulation on a regular basis.

For prostate milking to work in practice, it is important for massage to be subtle. Quick yet subtle movements seems to work the best. It is also important for massage to be targeted to a specific spot. This is why it’s often done with special toys: milking sticks.

A milking stick is a toy specially designed for prostate milking. It has a long, thin base and a head with a slight tip. The tip can be used for targeted prostate stimulation. It can be used for teasing and massage.

When using a milking toy, however, make sure to proceed carefully. The massage should be done without force and roughness. The toys make the process quicker but you need to be careful in order not to hurt the man in the process.

If you notice any blood in semen it is a sign that you’re too rough. If this happens, stop immediately. If bleeding continues, make sure to seek medical attention because it is a serious warning sign.

Also, keep in mind that prostate milking comes with the same health and safety warnings as regular prostate stimulation. Both include prostate massage, and it should not be done on men who have certain conditions, such as acute prostatitis and some other conditions. If in doubt, make sure to consult your doctor. It is important to stay safe during your sexual activities!

The Advantages of Metal Butt Plugs

Deluxe Locking Anal Butt Plug

Deluxe Locking Anal Butt Plug

Butt plugs are amazing anal toys specially designed to hit all the right spots. They ensure perfect satisfaction for both men and women who enjoy this type of stimulation. In fact, butt plugs are so popular that they are among the most common adult toys found on the market.

The great popularity of butt plugs means that there are so many different butt plugs to choose from. Whatever strikes your fancy, chances are that there is a butt plug designed to fulfill all of your desires!

The Beauty of Metal Butt Plugs

Butt plugs come in many different sizes, shapes and materials. There is something for everyone, from soft, small anal plugs made for beginners to huge, powerful plugs designed for the most experienced users.

Among all of the butt plugs, metal ones have a special place among all fans of anal stimulation. These plugs are premium sex toys specially made to provide the most intense and sensual anal stimulation imaginable. They are what experienced users and other anal stimulation enthusiasts love the best. That not to say that beginners can’t enjoy metal butt plugs: there are special small plugs made for those who wish to try anal stimulation for the first time.

In case you are interested in anal stimulation or simply love butt plugs, you should definitely have at least one (or a few!) metal plugs in your collection. This is the type of stimulation no other toy can provide.

Metal butt plugs are specially designed to hit all the right spots with the ideal amount of pressure, so they prove to be super-arousing and effective. They work much better than soft butt plugs and since they can be shaped in any way imaginable they can be designed to serve different purposes (for example, prostate stimulation).

If you are a beginner or just a casual anal toy user you may find the idea of metal butt plugs intimidating. After all, they are made of a super sturdy material and they tend to be heavy. However, it’s important to know that they are neither difficult nor uncomfortable to use even beginners, as long as you go slowly and use adequate amounts of lube. In other words, you don’t have to worry about pain or discomfort while using a metal butt plug. Of course, it’s best to start with a smaller model made for beginners and work your way from there. Also, keep in mind that metal butt plugs are often very smooth so they can go in more easily than plugs made of softer materials.

Why Use Metal Butt Plugs?

There are many reasons to choose metal butt plugs above any others. Some of the reasons are mentioned above, but here are some additional ones that will sure make you give these plugs a chance:

  • They are intense. If you truly wish to experience mind-blowing orgasms, metal butt plugs are the way to go. They will provide the most satisfying stimulation, even the little ones. You can go a long way with only a small metal butt plug.
  • They target sensitive spots. Many adult toys are designed for targeted stimulation, but metal butt plugs truly go one step further. Since they are made of a sturdy, heavy material they truly press all the right spots and make you moan in pleasure. This is some targeted stimulation you don’t want to miss.
  • They are super smooth. It’s always a good idea to have a very smooth anal sex toy, since the tissue is sensitive. Not to mention that smooth toys provide more comfort during use. This is why metal butt plugs are so good to wear and prove to be more comfortable than some softer ones.
  • They can be used for temperature play. If you enjoy temperature play, metal toys are your friend. Metal anal plugs can be easily heated to be warm or cooled down if you prefer the cold sensations.
  • They are body-friendly. Metals such as Surgical Steel are body-friendly and safe to use, so you know you are not endangering your health by using one of these.
  • They are beautiful. Metal butt plugs are a work of art. They are elegant and they can provide so much visual stimulation during kinky play between partners.

The Male G-Spot

prostateThe Male G-Spot (yes you have one) is often overlooked or thought of as weird or perverted. But the truth is, it was put there for a reason. OK men, think about it this way, women DO NOT have a prostate. Therefore, anal sex for a woman doesn’t hit any good spots really. That’s why women have clits.

But, men do have prostates, and they can be easily the best orgasm of your life. Although you will probably be scared to try it at first, or maybe you are a regular, it will be worth it. And this is not being written for a gay man, he already knows. This is for you guys out there who think you should never have anal stimulation or only want to do it to your woman. Well, change up and let her try it on you. You will not be disappointed.

Many men like there “taint” massaged or stimulated and you can start there, or do both. First you MUST have LUBE. Slowly begin putting pressure on the anus. You will want to do this several times, slowly and gently. Once you feel comfortable, insert your toy, I recommend on of the anal toys from thechaingang.com. They have a big selection.

Anyway, with plenty of lube on your toy, you or your partner, slowly and gently insert the toy. You will know the G-spot when you find it. It is a chestnut size bump about 2 inches inward. No gently press against the prostrate. You may find that you like an up and down motion or constant pressure. The first time, you may be too nervous for actual stimulation and you can try again later. But whichever method you choose, and you can certainly create your own, once you start stimulating, you will not want to stop.

There is not just physical stimulation involved. It is a very relaxing and emotional release. Take your time, use your lube, and you will love the outcum. Try thechaingang.com for the best anal toys on the web.