Bosendorfer: I need help! I’m a gay male (bottom) and have started seeing a guy who has a Jacob’s Ladder piercing (4 bars.) Sometimes I can take it, but often I just can’t. I try to live by a “never complain, never explain” attitude but some days I just feel torn up during the process and afterward. Is there some way I can take it more easily? Am I being a giant puss wagon about this?! I want to see what I can do on my end first before I suggest removing it =/. I’m starting to really dig this dude and I just don’t want to dilute his love for kink with too much vanilla… Some people just don’t care for Häagen Dazs ¯\_(?)_/¯!
Whether it’s piercing needs or steamy bedroom antics, lubrication is a very important element in achieving satisfaction. There are many different uses for lubrication. But how would you know what is the best lube to use? There are a vast variety of lubricants that are sold. The biggest differences between most of the lubricants are what they are based on. The most common bases used in creating a lubricant are water, oil, or silicone.
Water based lubricants are very popular because of how easily they wash off and they are less sticky than other based lubricants. Water based lubricants can either be liquid or gel. This type of lubricant is preferred for piercings because of how easily it washes off and the fact that the water can be absorbed into the skin. After a piercing is healed and you are … read more