Guide to Ben Wa Balls

Guide to Ben Wa BallsBen Wa balls, also known as Benwa balls and Venus balls are sensual toys made to tease and please you. These are, first and foremost, female sex toys intended for vaginal use. However, there are some men who can use them for their own pleasure.

These gorgeous balls are perfect teasing toys. Ideal for those who appreciate gentle sensations, Ben Wa balls are there to slowly build the arousal until you feel all ready. It is therefore not surprising that Benwa balls are one of the most sensitive sex toys.

Main Benefits of Ben Wa Balls

Benwa balls are very sensual toys many women like to use. These are not “in your face” sex toys. They will not bring immediate, intense orgasms like a powerful vibrator will. Ben Wa balls fulfill a different purpose. They are made to … read more

Can You Insert a Finger Into Penis?

Can You Insert a Finger Into PenisMany people wonder about the possibilities to play with their pee hole. Can you insert a finger into penis? Is it possible to stimulate penis on the inside?

The answer to both of these questions is yes. You can insert a finger into penis and play with your urethra. In fact, there are many men who enjoy this type of stimulation to the fullest.

Playing with your pee hole and inserting things into the penis are known as urethral stimulation or urethral play. This is a highly arousing sexual activity that many people like to perform on themselves or with their partners.

However, this is also an activity that carries certain risks, so you need to be very careful. In order to stay safe during these experimentation, it is best to use toys that are specially designed for read more

The Best Lube for Penis Plugs

The Best Lube for Penis PlugsGood urethral play is impossible without lube. Lubricants will not only make the experience smoother and more enjoyable but will also keep you safe. Remember, urethral stimulation is an activity that carries certain risks so you need to do everything you can to keep yourself safe during urethral play.

So, what is the best lube for penis plugs? While there is not one good, universal answer to this question, there are certainly some things to keep in mind when choosing a lube for your urethral play.

The Best Lube for Penis Plugs: Overview

In order to find the best lube for penis plugs, urethral sounds and other urethral toys, you need to understand what you actually need during urethral stimulation. An ideal lube has to play several roles:

  1. It keeps you safe.

    Friction can lead

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How Long Can You Wear Penis Plugs and Sounds?

~ Lee McCandless

My lover wants me to wear it all day until we have sex at night, is this safe to keep in all day?

cum-through-penis-plugUrethral toys are fun for both the wearer and his partner. It is therefore not surprising that toys such as penis plugs and urethral sounds are so popular. People use them for masturbation and other forms of sexual activities, including the ones done with a partner.

One of the main things you need to know in order to keep yourself safe while using urethral toys is how long you are allowed to keep your toy inside. After all, urethral play is fun but it is absolutely important to stay safe and to prevent injuries. Keep in mind that urethral stimulation comes with certain risks, and you need to do everything to minimize those risks.… read more

Anal Toys Safety Tips

746tAnal toys can be very fun and arousing. They are sensual, powerful and provide a great massage to your sweet spots. You can use them for some solo time or with a partner. However, whatever you do, it is important to stay safe. Anal toys can bring great pleasure but should also be used with caution. This is particularly true for metal toys, since they are very sturdy and can be heavy.

As you will see, a lot of it will depend on your choice of an anal toy, so choose wisely! Always take your experience level into account! Another thing to keep in mind is to always listen to your body: there are some warning signs you should never ignore while using anal toys.

Basic Anal Toys Safety Tips

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Free Buyer’s Guide to Lube

Passion Natural Water Based Lube or LubricantLube is a must-have item in your bedroom. A good personal lubricant is there to make any sexual activity smoother and more comfortable.

Lubes are there to make the experience more fun and exciting for everyone involved. They should be used for masturbation, penetrative sex, toy use or any other kind of a sexual activity.

Here are the main lube types with their advantages and drawbacks so you can choose when to use a specific lubricant type for your sexual activities:

Water-Based Lubes

Water-based lubricants are among the most popular lubes in the world. They are used so often because they are condom-compatible. They are safe to use with all types of condoms, so this is why many people choose them first.

One of the best things about water-based lubricants is that they are very easy to clean. You can … read more

Best Quality Lubricants

Best Quality Lubricants

Clean Stream Relax Desensitizing Anal Lube

Lubricants are essential for your enjoyment of sex. Any sexual activity, be it intercourse, masturbation or toy play, requires quality lube. Lubricants are there to make the experience smooth and comfortable so you can enjoy sex to the fullest.

Here are some of the popular types of lubricants you may want to try:

All Purpose Lubes

The so-called “all purpose lubes” are those lubes that are made for a wide variety of uses. In other words, they have a generalized use and are not specially formulated for any specific act or particular use. These are the most popular and common lubricants so you can use them almost any time you wish to engage in a sexual activity, be it intercourse, masturbation, toy use, and more.

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“In and Out” Sounding: How To

SoundingOne of the most exciting things about urethral stimulation is that you can play with your toys in many different ways. It all depends on your preferences and experience level, but there are definitely various things you can try.

For many people, one of the most exciting things about urethral stimulation is to use the toy to simulate penetrative sex. In other words, to penetrate your penis with a toy. Typically, it is done using in and out movements, in which the sound or a penis plug is moved in and out of the penis. Basically, it means “fucking” yourself (or your partner!) with a urethral toy. While not all people enjoy this activity, many claim this is the best and most arousing part of urethral stimulation.

“In and Out” Sounding Tips

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Penis Piercings and Anal Sex: How to Prevent Discomfort

Jacobs_LadderBosendorfer: I need help! I’m a gay male (bottom) and have started seeing a guy who has a Jacob’s Ladder piercing (4 bars.) Sometimes I can take it, but often I just can’t. I try to live by a “never complain, never explain” attitude but some days I just feel torn up during the process and afterward. Is there some way I can take it more easily? Am I being a giant puss wagon about this?! I want to see what I can do on my end first before I suggest removing it =/. I’m starting to really dig this dude and I just don’t want to dilute his love for kink with too much vanilla… Some people just don’t care for Häagen Dazs ¯\_(?)_/¯!

Sex with genital piercings is exciting and can bring pleasure to a completely new level. … read more

How to Avoid Pain During Ball Stretching

How to Avoid Pain During Ball StretchingMany people are interested in ball stretching and ball weights but are unsure about potential discomfort and pain. After all, stretching one’s balls may look very painful and as something that requires a lot of sacrifices. It also looks like something only those into bondage and cock & ball torture would be into.

The good news is that ball stretching doesn’t need to be painful. It doesn’t even have to be uncomfortable. In fact, ball stretching can be very erotic and arousing. Of course, if you prefer painful pleasure you can make it so, but ball stretching doesn’t need to be painful at all. So, if you are interested in ball stretching but are scared of pain there is nothing you need to worry about!

In order to avoid pain and discomfort during ball stretching, however, it’s important to follow … read more