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Is it safe to ejaculate with a urethral toy inside? The only fair answer to this question is “it depends”. There are risks associated with this activity that all sounding enthusiasts should know about. At the same time, there are men who have done it without problems and to a great satisfaction.
Understanding the Risks
Perhaps the most important thing is to understand what the main risk is about. If a solid urethral toy is inserted during ejaculation, it will prevent the semen to be expelled from the body. Normally, it goes through the urethra all the way to the tip of the penis, where it’s ejaculated from the body. If a urethral toy is in place, it may cause the semen to go back instead forward and end up inside the bladder. This is also referred to as “reverse ejaculation”.
One thing that is important to understand is that reverse ejaculation is typically not dangerous on itself. The semen will simply go back to the bladder and it will get expelled from the body at your next urination. In other words, forcing semen into the bladder is typically not harmful on itself.
In fact, there is something called “injaculation”. This is a deliberate attempt to force semen back to urethra performed in different parts of the world. It’s been used as a form of birth control without particular harmful effects. However, keep in mind that this is not an effective birth control method.
However, reverse ejaculation (forcing semen into the bladder) does open some risks people should know about. The first obvious problem are urinary tract infections. When forced into the bladder, the semen can transfer bacteria and cause further problems. It may also irritate the walls of the bladder. All of this makes the bladder and the whole urinary tract more sensitive and thus prone to infections. This is one of the reasons why ejaculating with the toy inside may cause problems.
Another potential risk is the pain. If the urethra is blocked during ejaculation it may result in testicular pain. Your whole penis and scrotum may feel very sensitive as a result of this experience. While this may be a desired outcome for those who practice painful games and punishment, it is something most men wish to avoid. If this happens, however, keep in mind that the pain will typically be short-lived and should not leave serious consequences. The pain may be there for a few hours but you should feel fine in the morning. In case the pain and tenderness are persistent you should see your doctor to make sure everything is alright.
It is also important to note that retaining too much semen inside the bladder is not healthy. Retaining too much semen inside, be it in the prostate or any other part of the urinary tract, is not a safe idea. This is why repeated injaculation (in this case, using urethral toys) is not recommended. This is definitely not something you want to do on a daily basis. To stay on the safe side, it’s best to enjoy ejaculating with a toy inserted only from time to time.
Ejaculate with a Urethral Toy Inside
Those who prefer to cum with a urethral toy inside actually have several options. The success and satisfaction will largely depend on one’s preferences and technique, but there are some options for those who really like to experience ejaculation with the urethral toy inside:
- Cum-through urethral toys. These are special, hollow toys that allow the semen to go through freely. These toys are specially designed to allow the wearer to ejaculate and urinate with the toy inside. As such, they are the safest option and the best way to prevent any potential negative effects of keeping the toy inside during ejaculation. The only downside is that most of these hollow toys are shorter (penis plugs and shorter sounds) so most of them are not suitable for deep urethral stimulation.
- Toys thinner than the girth of the urethra. If the toy is a bit thinner than the urethra it will allow for semen to be ejaculated from the penis even if the toy is inside. The ejaculation will be slower and a lot of the semen will be left behind (you will see it go out when you remove the toy), but it can help preventing reverse ejaculation. However, keep in mind that some of the semen can go back to bladder. Also, there is one important thing to remember: while the toy should be a bit thinner than your urethra, it’s best not to use super-thin toys. Never use too thin toys, since they are sharper than the thicker toys and can hurt the urethra. This is particularly important for beginners to remember. Newbies should never use toys that are too thin for their urethra. This is why it’s best for beginners to stay away from this method of keeping a toy inside during ejaculation.
- Taking the toy out during ejaculation. This is another option you may try, but it is important to choose a toy that can safely be removed when you are erect. Taking the urethral toy out during orgasm brings special sensations that many people find very pleasurable. If you want to take the toy out during ejaculation, make sure it is a toy you can safely remove while your penis is hard. Keep in mind that some toys, particularly urethral sounds with a curve, cannot safely be inserted or taken out when you have an erection!
All of these options can be used if you wish to experience what is like to cum with a toy inside but do not want to go with a large and thick solid toy. The first option (hollow toys) is the best one, because these toys are specially designed to allow for free ejaculation. The other two options can partially work. Thinner toys will allow the semen to be ejaculated, albeit with more difficulties, but some of it might end up in the bladder anyway. The final option brings unique sexual pleasure but it requires to take the toy out during erection, which is not possible for all urethral toys (and it doesn’t really allow you to fully ejaculate with the toy inside). If you wish to use the second or the third option make sure to understand the risks and stay safe.
How to Stay Safe
As you can see, cumming with a toy inside is not necessarily harmful. If the semen gets into the bladder it will typically be flushed out easily. However, it doesn’t mean that this activity should be done often and it certainly doesn’t mean that it’s good for everyone. If you are curious, start small and see how it feels. It is possible to do it without harmful effects.
That being said, injuries are always possible when handling urethral toys, particularly the long or ribbed ones. This is why it’s vital to learn as much as possible about urethral sounding and to practice slowly until you learn how to do it safely and without problems. Having an experienced person perform the sounding on you is also a good idea, especially when it comes to training. This is not something you and learn just by gathering information online. There is a lot of preparation and practice needed and people should be well-aware of the risks and potential problems associated with this activity.
Perhaps the best way to stay safe and be informed is to find a kink-friendly doctor who can outline all of the potential risks and advise you how to minimize them. It is not always easy to find such a medical professional but it is worth the trouble. This is the best way to get some good information about what to do and what to avoid during sounding and other types of urethral stimulation. Also, a doctor can teach you how to recognize the warning signs and help you perform urethral stimulation as safely as possible. Again, it is not easy to find such a kink-friendly doctor but it’s worth the trouble!
At the end of the day, it is important to understand that urethral stimulation is an activity that brings certain risks. Some people even consider it to be an extreme form of sexual stimulation and as such, it should be proceed with caution. It is up to consenting adults to decide if this sort of activity is right for them or not. If you decide to practice urethral stimulation it is important to stay informed, go slowly and always use your common sense. There is no guarantee that it will always go sloothly and problem-free.
We always advise our readers to understand the risks associated with particular sexual activities and to always seek medical attention if the problem arises.
That being said, it is important to note that while urethral stimulation can bring injuries, there are numerous stories about people who perform urethral sounding regularly and without problems. Some of these men ejaculate with urethral toys in place and report excellent results. In other words, it is possible to enjoy this activity to the fullest. What is important is to understand the risks and know what to do if something goes wrong.
Craig Rutledge is a staff writer for TheChainGang. His main interests include sex toys for men, particularly urethral sounds and ball stretchers. He is also a proud owner of numerous body piercings. He says: “I am happy to contribute with my experience and knowledge about various penis toys and stretching devices. There is still so much unknown about things like urethral sounding, ball stretching or male chastity and it needs to change. I will share my experience and advice in order to help men, young and old, to discover these toys and have the best fun”. In addition to writing, Craig also answers questions and provides handy advice for people learning more about extreme sex toys for men.