When you come out of the closet, it is very common for you to quickly fall in love with a man who shows you affection. However, just as in the heterosexual world, it is very common in the gay community to find guys who want to take advantage of you. For this reason, you must be extremely careful and selective with your partners.
No one is exempt from this kind of situation and, at least once in their life, they are deceived by someone they love. Your friends may say they are the perfect match, but who makes them? Most only say it because they feel jealous that you have a partner but do not see what is behind it. The good thing is that today, with this catfishing guide, we will teach you to discover all the tricks, and we will give you some tips so that you fully capture their attention.
What Catfishing mean?
Catfish is the person who uses a very old photograph of himself, photos of someone else, or even some photos of you to deceive others. This is a huge problem that became common among homosexuals. Worse of all, it is completely illegal, and they do it anyway.
You may wonder why there are people who do this. Well, the answer is sometimes simpler than it sounds. Some do it because they need to earn more money, feel strange, have self-esteem issues, etc. For this reason, it is best not to go into details because the problem may be more complicated than you think.
The phrase “Catfish” was adopted by the gay community around 2010 after they filmed a documentary about the rise and fall of a lie, using photographs of a family provided by an unknown photographer.
Maybe you have ever been cheated on, or maybe not. Anyway, here we provide you with a list of the top obvious signs and tips that you should follow to spot a catfish:
Search in social networks
We all have a friend who has so many acquaintances on social media that you can ask him to introduce you to someone just by having his name or photo. This is one of the best alternatives when you want to track and find social network profiles without anyone noticing.
If you see the love of your life on a dating app but don’t want to write to him, take a screenshot and drag him to Google image search to find him quickly. If you see the same photo appear in different profiles, you will realize that it is a complete sham.
This is one of the easiest forms of verification, so you should do it every time you meet a potential partner.
No cameras or videos
Avoid completely taking pictures of you and sending them to him if he asks for them at any time, much fewer videos. Today many free applications allow you to hack into other people’s phone cameras.
Shock the other side with your prince albert piercing
For this reason, it is best to avoid any contact with him until you verify that he is someone legitimate. After this, if you want, you can even make a video call on Skype and show him your prince albert piercing, and stimulate yourself by masturbating or even more by using sex toys.
Today there are many ways of seeing and knowing a person without seeing it in person. Also, they can enjoy a lot with s video s calls. However, the main thing is to make sure that this person is someone for real. Do not agree to see it anywhere until you have confirmed that it is legitimate.
Phone calls are key
Many believe that calls are no longer necessary because many platforms allow voice messages to be sent through chat. However, with a phone call, you can determine if he is telling you the truth.
If you ask him a personal question, he can start to get uncomfortable and hesitate a bit, and at that point, you will realize that he is lying to you. On the other hand, if he is completely confident and firm with his dialogue, you can take a risk and ask him for a sexting session.
Many things can alert you when you make a phone call, so don’t miss the opportunity to discover their lies.
Make sure their profiles make sense
If you notice that no one has ever wished him a happy birthday, that there are not even posts where some relatives tag him, you can easily tell that it is a fake profile. It doesn’t matter what social network it is; if you do not have publications about your personal life, it is only an alibi.
Some of the men who do this say that they don’t like social media very much and that for that reason, they don’t post a lot. However, why open a social media account like Instagram if you are not going to use it? That doesn’t make sense at all.
You also realize that you are dealing with a fake profile when you have never posted photos with friends and have never been tagged by anyone. This typically happens when all photos on the account were posted on the same day, a clear red flag.
When what he says doesn’t Make sense
What can give them away the most are the lies they invent to try to make you fall for their game? Some go to the extreme and post extremely dramatic and unrealistic posts on their social media walls to get attention, such as “Famous from the movie industry.” Still, it turns out that they both live in a small town.
Some of the things they tell you are likely true, but with so many lies they tell, it’s hard to believe them when they tell the truth. If you think something is very exaggerated or suspicious, it probably is. These types of people can say anything to you as long as you fall for their game with ease.
When he tells you very fanciful stories and the experience of vibrator
Sometimes they tell you about some “experiences” they have had, but it all sounds very fanciful. A common fantasy wants someone to shove a high quality sex toy such as vibrating dildo up your butt to cum like never before while having sex in the back of the car. Still, when he tells you that he did it with his ex while they were skydiving, you realize that this guy is a huge phony.
He may go so far as to tell you that he has an excellent job or owns a multi-million dollar company. Still, whatever story he tells you, you shouldn’t believe him out of the blue.
Begging money
It may not happen to you during the first few weeks of your relationship, but when he begins to ask you for money very often, it is a clear red flag. It does not matter if it is a large small amount of money. Real men have no need to ask their partners for money because they can get it independently.
They turn you on with butt plugs
Today there are extremely crazy Catfishes who, in addition to making sure to turn you on by stimulating a butt plug on themselves along with other anal toys. Watch out when they start to ask you for thousands and thousands of dollars to pay their bills.
Your work seems a lie
When they tell you that they have many business trips, never have time to go out and share with you, and never tell you where you are going, it means that they are hiding something from you. It may be that he is married, cheating on you with someone else, or something similar.
When they tell you right off the bat that they are entrepreneurs and have a lot of money, work at NASA, they are members of the Secret Service… all of those are lies most of the time. Besides that, they sound like completely false stories. If they were, they would not have time for a relationship.
They go very fast
If you text frequently, it’s easy to get warmed up quickly, especially if he starts to flatter you. This can cause this false intimacy between the two of you to say “I love you” in a very short time.
The best that can happen is that they are the last person you talk to before going to sleep, that they promise you the sky and the stars but, in reality, will hardly ever have time to see each other in person, and when do they will only have wild sex for a while, and then everyone will go home.
You may never find out if what he says is true. Still, it is preferable that you take precautions at all times and that you take care to avoid sending pictures or videos of yourself.
The Sixth sense
This time, you have had a feeling for a long time, which does not go away. Perhaps you have noticed one of his lies. You feel that he cheats on you with someone else, ignores you, praises you a lot, etc.
You can’t just ignore the fact that there is something weird about everything that happens, so you have to be extremely careful about it. Your instincts can guide you better than you think.
Everyone falls into the trap sometimes
It might be scary to experience something like this, but sometimes it’s good for us to go through experiences like that because we can learn so much in the process. It is true that it hurts emotionally to fall in love and that the other person does not feel the same. Still, no one is exempt from this risk when starting a relationship.