I did purchase a rosebud set and then a complete 14 of Dittle set and have worked my way up to the # 26. I’m going probably to within 2 inches from the bottom of the flat top part of the Dittle so I assume I’ve passed the prostrate, yet no specific positive feelings of stimulation and just read your article on Van Buren Sounds and the sharp curve on the one end for prostrate stimulation and based on your article am under the impression that these are the best for prostrate stimulation, am I correct? I do understand that these are Not for beginning sounding. Thanks for any info you might be able to offer.
Van Buren sounds are, indeed, the best sounds for prostate stimulation. They are also great for all types of deep urethral play. They might require some skills and getting used to but once you master them, chances are that you will never want to stop! However, keep in mind that these sounds are generally not good for beginner users and even some intermediate users may have trouble with them. Van Buren sounds are ideal for users with plenty of experience. At the same time, if you really want to use them, do it, just be careful and go slowly until you master the technique.
Prostate Stimulation: Is It Happening?
Your experience with Dittel (Dittle) sounds seems positive. These sounds are great for beginners and those who want to experience specific sensations (such as attaching E-stim boxes for Electro Sex stimulation). At the same time, these sounds are not ideal for deep urethral play and prostate massage. This might be the reason you didn’t truly enjoyed deep urethral stimulation with them as much as you hoped.
Of course, it is possible to do deep urethral play with these sounds and some people even manage to get great prostate massage with Dittle sounds. However, it is important to understand that this is not the main function of these sounds. They are better for regular (not super deep) urethral play.
On the other hand, maybe it’s not the sounds. Perhaps you are not so familiar with prostate massage yet so you might not doing it to the best satisfaction. Keep in mind that it is generally difficult to so “accidental” prostate massage – when you reach the prostate, you generally know. There will be some resistance and you generally need to turn your sound slightly to position it to the right spot. Of course, it is impossible to say what happened but keep in mind that there is a possibility that you didn’t manage to reach the prostate fully. It is also possible that you did it and that it’s just not something you find arousing. That is fine, but it seems like you want to practice prostate massage so you might want to try again with a different toy.
Van Buren Sounds for Prostate Massage
Van Buren sounds are excellent urethral toys for those who want to go really deep. These sounds have a curve, which means that they fit the natural curves in the urethra perfectly. Furthermore, Van Buren sounds have a pointed tip that is ideal for prostate teasing and prostate massage.
It is important to understand that these are very powerful sounds and that some people even consider them extreme. For this reason, it is absolutely crucial to go slowly and to be patient in order not to hurt yourself. Van Buren sounds can bring a lot of pleasure but you need to learn how to use them. This is why they are not good for beginners.
Since you already have some experience with urethral play you may try Van Buren sounds to see if they fit you. Just go slowly in the beginning and use plenty of lube. It is also a good idea to take your time until you master the technique. If you are patient and careful chances are that you will reach the prostate so you can try some sensual massage and see if you find it pleasurable or not.
Craig Rutledge is a staff writer for TheChainGang. His main interests include sex toys for men, particularly urethral sounds and ball stretchers. He is also a proud owner of numerous body piercings. He says: “I am happy to contribute with my experience and knowledge about various penis toys and stretching devices. There is still so much unknown about things like urethral sounding, ball stretching or male chastity and it needs to change. I will share my experience and advice in order to help men, young and old, to discover these toys and have the best fun”. In addition to writing, Craig also answers questions and provides handy advice for people learning more about extreme sex toys for men.