Prostate stimulation is very arousing and rewarding. A bad thing is that prostate gland is not easy to reach, since it’s located inside the body. However, there are some very easy ways to reach your prostate or to have your partner do it for you. All you need to know where to touch!
Here, we will describe two main ways to reach prostate for stimulation. They are very different and they require different level of skills and equipment, but both can be used for that mind-blowing prostate massage.
In order to enjoy effective prostate stimulation you need to know your anatomy. This is the only way to know how to approach your body and how to get that targeted and proper P-spot massage. The good news is that prostate can be stimulated in many different ways so you have many options!
The prostate is located below the bladder and it makes an integral part of human urethral system. It is about of a size of a walnut and it’s positioned in front of the rectum, which means it can be felt during anal penetration.
The urethra passes from the bladder, through the prostate and all the way to the penis. This is how the urine flows from the bladder and out of the body. Prostate plays an important reproductive role: it secrets a fluid needed for nourishing sperm. The part of urethra inside of prostate is merged with two ejaculatory ducts coming from testicles via vas deferens. Sperm comes from testicles and is mixed with seminal fluid to form semen. About 10 to 30 percent of seminal fluid is produced by the prostate itself. During ejaculation, prostate muscles contract and pass semen to the penis, where penile muscles expel semen out of the body.
The main things to remember from the anatomy lesson is that, while prostate plays a reproductive role and is connected to testicles, it is much easier to reach in ways that do NOT include testicles: through urethra and anus. It’s all due to the position of the urethra within the body.
Massaging prostate can be very pleasurable and arousing. Some people compare it to stimulation of a female G-spot. The exact feeling and intensity of experience vary from men to men but it is true that P-spot massage can greatly benefit your sex life and orgasms. Perhaps the best thing about prostate stimulation is a special kind of orgasm, the one that does not require any form of genital stimulation. While this requires some practice it sure pays off a big time!
How to Reach Urethra?
The location of urethra is very important for P-spot stimulation, because you need to know where it’s positioned in order to know how to massage it. As you can see from the above explanation, prostate is located deep within the body so it’s not always easy to reach directly (though it’s possible!) Luckily, its relative position to the rectum makes things easier!
There are two main ways to stimulate prostate:
- Indirectly: Through the anus. Anal stimulation can be used to massage prostate through the anus. This sort of massage doesn’t touch prostate directly but it’s still very effective since anal walls are relatively thin and prostate is positioned very close to the rectum. This is also the easiest way to reach your prostate gland for stimulation.
- Directly: Through the urethra. Prostate can be reached directly, all the way down the urethral canal. Since urethra passes through the penis and then prostate, if you perform deep urethral stimulation and if you insert your urethral toy deep enough, you can reach prostate. (You can go one step further and stimulate your bladder, too). This is a more difficult way to proceed because it requires special toys and some skill and experience, but it’s possible to reach prostate directly.
There are also some other ways to stimulate your prostate. For some men, even perineum massage (between testicles and anus) can be beneficial, especial if a vibrating toy is used. The vibrating waves go beneath the skin to reach prostate.
Men who do not want to go too deep into urethra to reach prostate can still enjoy a bit of that special feeling but just using a shorter urethral toy. Some sounds and plugs, especially vibrating ones, will send the waves of pleasure to your prostate.
Keep in mind: “indirect” here means anything where the device made for stimulation does not touch the prostate directly. Many people, however, count anal stimulation as direct because you do reach prostate to massage it, even though there is your anal wall between the prostate and the toy, and even though you do not actually go inside the prostate. In these cases, only external stimulation (such as stimulation of the perineum) counts as “indirect”.
However, there is a reason why only urethral stimulation is direct – it not only makes a direct contact between the device and urethra (and thus, provides a different sort of sensation) but also allows the user to actually go inside the prostate (and further, to the bladder), which also provides many different and intense sensations, most of which cannot be achieved in any other way.
Different Types of Massages
Since the two main ways to reach prostate (through anus and through urethra) are very different, they require a very different set of skills. Anal massage is definitely an easier choice, since it doesn’t require much of training. It doesn’t even require special devices: all you need is your finger!
The prostate can be felt as a walnut-sized gland about a finger deep into anus. You will need to bend your finger slightly to reach prostate. Not even first timers should have any problems finding the gland through the anal wall. You will need a bit of practice to make it pleasurable and to find your “sweet spot”, but it’s a fun exploration!
Of course, this is just basic prostate stimulation. It feels even better with an anal toy, especially a vibrating one. There are also specialized anal toys, prostate stimulators, made just for the job! These P-spot massagers are designed to stimulate your prostate and make you moan in pleasure.
All beginners who wish to try prostate stimulation are advised to try the anal route or other forms of indirect stimulation (such as perineum massage). Urethral stimulation of the prostate is reserved for more experienced users and requires a good knowledge of urethral stimulation and urethral sounding. However, once you are experienced enough and well-versed in urethral sounding you can try deep stimulation to massage your prostate and experience pleasure in a completely new way.
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