Can you have Sex while Wearing a Penis Plug?

penis plugMany fans of penis plugs and other urethral toys like to wear their urethral devices for long periods of time. After all, some urethral toys are specially designed for this. For example, penis plugs with cum through hole are made to be worn for long periods of time without taking them off. This is why the hole is there in the first place: it allows urine and semen to pass without taking the plug out. As such, these penis plugs can be worn for hours, sometimes even days.

The fact you can wear these penis plugs for so long and the fact they have a cum through hole for the fluids make some people wonder about the possibility of having a sexual intercourse with the toy inserted. It is one of the common questions people ask: can you have sex while wearing a penis plug?

So, Can You Have Sex While Wearing a Penis Plug?

The short answer is: it may be possible, but it’s not recommended.

The longer answer is that there are numerous factors to take into account when discussing this subject. Urethral toys should be used manually, to insert them by yourself or to have your partner insert them for you. After the insertion, the wearer or his partner will masturbate the penis until orgasm. Some people choose to play other scenarios, but they generally don’t include sexual intercourse.

If you wish to try sexual intercourse, you need to be more careful. This is where the whole thing becomes more risky and not recommended. The problem with the intercourse is that it may be dangerous for both the wearer and his partner. The wearer may hurt his penis or cause injuries if her or his partner move under the wrong angle, which is nearly impossible to control during intercourse, especially if it’s done in the heat of the moment.

Urethral toys are also dangerous for the receiving partner. Women can have injuries to their vagina and cervix if the bottom of the penis plug rubs on their tissue. (Remember, bottom of the penis plug is the one that’s sticking out of the penis; the tip is the one that gets inserted first). This is why any penis plug used for intercourse must have a flat and smooth ending. Not that it’s going to ensure safety but it’s a better deal than any sharp or textured bottoms.

Anal sex is also dangerous, because the toy can hurt the delicate anal tissue. A similar concern can be voiced for any types of oral sex performed on a man with a penis plug.

Another problem comes during the orgasm, which may make the penis plug to be expelled from the penis under pressure. This doesn’t always happen, but it’s possible. When the penis plug gets expelled from the urethra it may hit the partner’s sensitive tissue such as cervix, causing further problems.

In the end, it all depends on the wearer and his partners. This may be a risk you are willing to take and there are some people who claim that they have sex with a penis plug without any problems. On the other hand, if you choose to engage in this activity you need to do it at your own risk. Keep in mind that this is not a recommended use of a urethral toy and that a lot of things can go wrong. Make sure to have a number of a kink-friendly doctor (or any doctor) you can call in case of the emergency, and make sure to call them if you injure yourself or your partner.

Also, if you truly wish to try sex while wearing a penis plug, make sure to choose the penis plug wisely. Remember, no urethral toy is safe for this type of an activity, but some toys are more dangerous than the others. If you truly wish to try this activity (even though it’s not recommended!), do it with the least intimidating, smoothest penis plug you can find.

Intercourse and Ejaculation

Can you have Sex while Wearing a Penis Plug 2žSome people may thing that that main problem with penis plugs and intercourse is ejaculation. After all, there are some problems that may occur when you use penis plugs regularly (outside intercourse), and some of them include ejaculation.

Namely, there are many penis plugs and other urethral toys that are solid. In other words, they do not have a hole so the fluids can pass through freely. In this situation, what happens with the semen? It may sound scary, especially to people who are unfamiliar with urethral stimulation.

Solid penis plugs, especially those that are of the same thickness as the urethra, can cause a special effect during ejaculation. Regular ejaculation means that semen is expelled from the body under pressure. It goes all the way up the urethra and exists through the pee hole. If you wear a solid penis plug or another solid urethral toy that has a perfect fit for your urethra, you are blocking the exit to your semen. It will not be able to go through the pee hole and to be expelled from the body.

So, what happens with the ejaculation? The penis plug or another toy inserted will act as a blockage for the semen so instead of going up, it will go back, all the way to the bladder. This phenomenon is known as “retrograde ejaculation”.

This is generally not dangerous, though it may be painful. The semen simply goes to the bladder and it is expelled from your body the next time you urinate. However, if you wish to engage in this and try solid urethral toys it is highly advisable to visit your doctor and confirm that it is safe for you to engage in this activity. Those who experience retrograde ejaculation without a problem say that it may actually enhance the sexual experience. That being said, the force of the semen that tries to get out (and fails) may push the penis plug outside of the body, which may cause injuries and other problems.

How does this affect intercourse? The truth is that there is no specific answer. It all depends, and there is no good way to protect yourself. If the pair is lucky, nothing will happen. It is possible to simply ejaculate with a solid penis plug in place and have retrograde ejaculation that will not push the penis plug outside of the body. In this scenario, the penis plug will not hit your partner’s tissue and your partner may go without injuries. However, there is no guarantee that you will be so lucky. In many cases, the plug does get pushed out so both you and your partner risk serious injuries. This is just not something you want to play with. The risk is too high so it’s best not to use solid plugs for this type of activity. That is, if you decide you truly want to try intercourse with a penis plug inserted, do not do it with a penis plug that prevents ejaculation.

Some people also wonder about birth control. While this is a wild and dangerous idea, there are some people who wanted to use penis plugs as a form of birth control, which is a bad idea. Since solid penis plugs are used in this scenario, the idea is to cause retrograde ejaculation so all the semen goes back to the bladder. Needless to say, this is both a dangerous and ineffective idea. It is dangerous because it can cause numerous injuries, as described above. It is also ineffective because urethral toys are rarely perfectly tight. Even the solid ones that cause retrograde ejaculation do have some leakage. Not to mention leakage you get if the urethral toy gets pushed outside during the orgasm.

Because of these things, penis plugs and other urethral toys should not be used as means of birth control. While it’s clear why some people may come to this idea, it is both dangerous and ineffective. It doesn’t work; it is not a reliable form of birth control. Not to mention that you are risking injuries and other problems if you attempt it.

All in all, ejaculation with a penis plug inside is not a problem. You can use hollow plugs that let all the fluids pass free, and many people can also enjoy solid penis plugs, even if they cause retrograde ejaculation. (Of course, all these toys should be used at one’s own responsibility and with the understanding of the risks). Where it becomes truly tricky is during the intercourse. This is where you need to think about ejaculation and what happens to it, because the force of the ejaculation can push the toy outside of the urethra and cause injuries to the receiving partner (or the wearer himself).

What Kind of a Penis Plug to Choose to Have Sex?

Can you have Sex while Wearing a Penis Plug 3Again, no penis plug or another urethral toy is recommended for intercourse. There are numerous risks associated with this activity, so it is not something that should be attempted.

However, it is a fact that there are couples who engage in this activity without injuries, so it’s not surprising that there are people who might want to try it.

If you really want to take the risk of having an intercourse with a penis plug inserted, make absolute sure to use only urethral toys you are familiar with. Test it out numerous times and see how your body behaves when the penis plug is inserted, particularly during the ejaculation.

The most important thing to keep in mind is that you need a penis plug with a flat, comfortable base. The base is what will potentially come in touch with your partner’s body (such as cervix), so you need something that is not sharp or dangerous. Flat, smooth bases without any texture are a better choice than pointed bases or bases with ribs or other additions. It has to be something that will not bruise your partner’s sensitive tissue!

Another thing to keep in mind is the cum through hole. While you can use solid plugs for your own amusement, remember that they will cause retrograde ejaculation and the force of the ejaculated semen may push the plug out of the body. The plug that is pushed out may hurt your partner or yourself during the intercourse. This is why it’s better to go with a hollow penis plug that has a cum through hole so the semen is ejaculated in a regular way. Remember, this is not a guarantee that the penis plug will not be expelled from the body but it does lower the risk.

What about penis plugs with glans rings? Glans rings are made to keep the plug in place during use. These rings do keep penis plugs in place even during ejaculation, even though they may be some minor movements. It may therefore be tempting to use such a penis plug during intercourse.

Keep in mind, however, that penis plugs with glans rings often have a complicated base and the joint used to connect the penis plug with the glans ring may be painful to your partner and hurt their tissue. For these reasons, penis plugs with glans rings are not a good solution for those who wish to try intercourse while wearing a penis plug, though all depends on the design of the plug itself. In theory, if there are penis plugs that have such a design that makes a smooth transition from the plug to the glans ring that will not hurt or injure the partner they may be permissible.

Of course, any talk about them being “permissible” is relative since, remember, no penis plugs are really suitable to be worn during the intercourse. The only thing that is possible to say that a penis plug is riskier and less safe for intercourse. There are no urethral toys that are absolutely safe to be used for sexual intercourse of any kind (including oral sex), and this is something you need to remember if you wish to engage in this activity. If you want to stay as safe as possible it is better not to attempt this type of sexual activity at all.

As usual, if you truly want to try sexual intercourse with a penis plug inserted it is best to consult a kink-friendly doctor. Your doctor can give you specialized advice that applies to your individual case and help you and your partner stay safe during any type of urethral play you wish to try. A good doctor is also there to help you stay safe and minimize risks of injuries and other problems you may encounter during urethral stimulation with or without a partner.

About Melina Jackson:
Melina is a staff writer, author and researcher for TheChainGang. She covers numerous subjects, from body jewelry to kinky adult toys. In addition to this, Melina also provides occasional adult toy reviews written in an interesting and sexy manner. She says: “I’m happy and proud to be a part of TheChainGang team. I enjoy every research because I know how much importance TheChainGang places on customer satisfaction and providing accurate and up to date information. I particularly like sex toy reviews: they are fun to write and experience”. In addition to writing and researching, Melina provides online research results and handy information for buyers interested in accurate and easily understandable tips and advice on choosing the best adult toys and body jewelry.

2 thoughts on “Can you have Sex while Wearing a Penis Plug?

  1. Of course one could have sex with the plug. But I have not tried it yet because I am a solo masturbant. I can masturbate well with the plug. When the plug is inserted you can not feel any more at all. The effect is that the meatus external is imperceptibly widened, and therefore after some time a larger plug purely fits.

  2. Jagtstein,

    Yes, having sex with a plug inserted is possible in some circumstances. However, it brings certain risk so many experts advise against it. As a minimum precaution it is important to use specific penis plugs that will not harm the wearer or his partner. Certain plugs are more dangerous than the others in this regard, even though they are excellent and safe penis plugs for solo play.

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