Before you decide to experiment with sounding, it’s important to understand that it takes time, patience and a bit of sense for adventure. This is why sounds, penis plugs and other similar toys and tools do seem so exciting. They can make you experience completely new sensations and enjoy some hot, kinky play with your partner.
To make the most of this experience, you need to be ready, relaxed and, most importantly, to have patience. Sounding can’t be done in a rush, especially when you’re only starting out.
Before you start a sounding session, you need to prepare yourself. Sounding is not just about inserting urethral sounds inside your penis: it’s also about sharing an intimate and kinky moment with your partner. Therefore, both partners should be prepared and ready to communicate during the play. This is crucial, especially if this is your first time to attempt sounding.
The first thing is to be relaxed and ready. Sounding takes time, patience and good communication between partners, so make sure you feel comfortable about trying this. Whatever you do, it’s important to be prepared, both mentally and physically. Mental preparation is about truly wanting to try urethral sounding and to be as relaxed as possible, because it will make the experience more rewarding. Physically, it’s important to be clean: wash yourself, especially your penis. Both you and your partner should wash your hands.
Needless to say, before you start with urethral play, you need to have all the items and tools prepared: urethral sounds or urethral sound set you want to use, sterile lube, rubber gloves, towels, or any other item you wish to use. It’s important that all toys are properly sanitized and ready for your sounding session.
Alone or With a Partner?
Sounding is, for the large part, a kinky play between partners. This is why it’s usually done during a kinky session with another person. If sounding is part of a BDSM play a man who’s being penetrated with an urethral sound is bottom. Sounding offers numerous opportunities for D/s play, so this is why it’s such an exciting technique.
However, when it comes to practicing and preparing yourself for the first urethral sounding, you may go alone or try it with a partner. Some people prefer to start urethral play and experimenting with urethral stimulation on their own. A man might want to get used to the sensation of being penetrated in this way and to test how he feels about it. Some people love to try it on their own and at their own pace. This testing can also help you relax and stretch your urethra a little, so the actual sounding will feel more familiar and comfortable.
Many people, however, want to start with a partner. For them, urethral sounding is a fetish between a couple, and they want to experience it in the hands of their partner. They don’t want to merely feel the sensation of urethral play: they want another person (their partner) to do it. These people will sure want to experience urethral sounding with a partner, and they want their partner to be the one inserting the sound.
There is no right or wrong way to go here: opt for what feels right for you. It’s really important to be excited about the urethral play and to be as relaxed and enthusiastic as possible. To achieve this, you should do it in a way that feels right for you.