One of the most prevalent (and annoying) assumption about people with piercings is that they like pain. While pain games and pain enjoyment exist, they are not necessarily related to piercings. In fact, it’s important to know that piercings themselves are rarely about the pain itself: while some people who enjoy pain do get piercings, this is not the rule. There are also many people who are piercing enthusiasts but dislike pain or are even scared of it. There is simply no rule to this.
The common assumption about pain-loving people with piercings typically come from people who do not have any piercings, which is not surprising. People who don’t have piercings are less likely to understand what piercings and other body modifications are about. That not to say that all people without piercings are ignorant, but it’s less likely to have a person with piercings who holds common stereotypes about pierced people. Simply put, once you are interested in piercings you understand more why people are drawn to this type of modifications.
So, the pain thing usually comes from the place of not understanding what piercings are about. Since many piercings are painful to perform, some people conclude that it’s necessary to like pain to subject yourself to this. This sort of thinking ignores one important fact: piercings are rarely about procedure itself. They are about the result.
While there are some people who enjoy pain and might like the procedure of getting a piercing, this sort of modification is not focused on the pain itself. It is alright to enjoy pain during a procedure but it’s also alright not to like it. In fact, there are so many people who like piercings but are scared of piercing pain and piercing needles. These people strongly dislike the procedure and associated discomfort but choose to go through it for the sake of a piercing.
There are many different scenarios because there are so many different people who enjoy piercings. There is no one, unifying explanation of people’s attitudes to piercing procedure and associated pain.
Why Focus on Pain?
While pain is just a small aspect of piercing experience, it may seem strange that so many people focus on it. After all, getting a piercing done is just the beginning. This is not what piercings are about. There is also healing time and enjoying your new piercing to the fullest. There is a lot about choosing the best and most beautiful jewelry for your piercings. Some people choose to stretch their piercings. Others add weights in order to enhance the experience. There are so many ways to enjoy your piercings.
So, why so much focus on the pain? It’s simple: pain is so closely linked to piercings that it’s sometimes impossible to separate the two. After all, it’s considered impossible to get a piercing without pain. In fact, some people consider the two linked so much that they treat it as a test: if you are not strong enough to go through the pain, you are not deserving of a piercing.
While this sort of thinking is logical, it’s also important to know that many piercings are not as painful as they may seem. For example, tongue piercing is known to be relatively simple and it doesn’t cause much pain. Also, there are so many people who dislike pain but choose to get pierced anyway, and they later comment that the pain was not as bad as they thought it would be. All of these things suggest that piercings are not reserved only to people who like pain. In fact, getting a piercing by a professional piercer at a reliable studio is not the best place for those who enjoy pain, since piercers do their best to minimize clients’ discomfort. There is no much logical reason to believe that pierced people get piercings just to enjoy pain. It is just one of the misconceptions about piercings.